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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Edinburgh's first lesbian bar? Pull the other one, Pink News

65 replies

RadicalFern · 21/08/2021 18:00

Much as I'd like Edinburgh lesbians to have their own space, taking a look at the founder I'm not sure that this space is going to be it.

www.pinknews.co.uk/2021/08/21/edinburgh-lesbian-bar/?fbclid=IwAR1PLB8y7j81b4DtgcWmfXUCF8ErUuyfFy0_r-_l-BWT1vqcKxIiw-HrgfU

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BeaBeaBuzz · 21/08/2021 18:04

It interesting in that it reads as if it’s just an idea- no funding, no experience, no premises. How is it news? There are other lesbian owned bars in Edinburgh

StarryStarrySocks · 21/08/2021 18:08

Basically, if you’re a cis man, don’t turn up,” she sums up. “I want straight people and cis men to feel like they shouldn’t be there.

Leaving everything else aside for a minute, this is a very strange way to run a business... I think Emily should maybe stick to their studies.

Jaysmith71 · 21/08/2021 18:11

Well, yes: Gitahtamypub! This is a local shop for local people, etc.

More? OK:

Lesbian walks into a bar: "Ow!" she cries, "Who left that *(%&ing bar there?"

nauticant · 21/08/2021 18:12

Google image search.

Lifeinthelastlane · 21/08/2021 18:17

I'm sure I have been in a lesbian bar in Edinburgh, once upon a time.
The future-bar owner defines as a non-binary lesbian. Can someone explain that to me? A lesbian has to be a woman? If you think TWAW you'd still wouldn't be a non-binary lesbian?

RadicalFern · 21/08/2021 18:18

I think Emily's scheme to drop out of university to run a bar is...a shaky business plan at best.

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CovidCorvid · 21/08/2021 18:20

Basically, if you’re a cis man, don’t turn up,” she sums up. “I want straight people and cis men to feel like they shouldn’t be there.

What if the cis man identifies as a lesbian? 🤷‍♀️ Surely they’d be welcome.

CovidCorvid · 21/08/2021 18:23

Apparently the Regent in Edinburgh is a lesbian bar. So Emily’s won’t be the first.

BeaBeaBuzz · 21/08/2021 18:26

Maybe the first that doesn’t allow straight people ? I didn’t think you were allowed to exclude groups based on sexuality?

nauticant · 21/08/2021 18:31

Maybe the exclusion is on the basis of gender identity, with Emily cannily realising that since it's not one of the protected characteristics then discrimination on the basis of this characteristic is permitted.

PronounssheRa · 21/08/2021 18:33

@CovidCorvid

Basically, if you’re a cis man, don’t turn up,” she sums up. “I want straight people and cis men to feel like they shouldn’t be there.

What if the cis man identifies as a lesbian? 🤷‍♀️ Surely they’d be welcome.

Funny you should say that........
NoNever · 21/08/2021 18:40

I can’t imagine being a female lesbian in that bar. The idea is like throwing a baby to wolves, pushing a bleeding girl into an ocean full of sharks, getting a girl drunk and leaving her with a bunch of ummmm, penis-havers.

ArtemesiaK · 21/08/2021 18:45

So if she doesn't want cis men, is s(he) being homophobic? What about cis women who are bi? How will s(he) be able to tell? How about cis men who identify as transwoman lesbians? It all sounds generally phobic to me. As a straight woman living in England, I'm probably not even entitled to comment! I'm sure it will be a great success.....

FatAnkles · 21/08/2021 18:48

I know LGBTQ+ landlords (landpeople?) in my area but everyone's welcome...there may be a rainbow flag outside but no-one cares and by excluding people you cut your nose off to spite your face.

Also, how to check? I'm a hetero female but I could say I'm a lesbian just so I can get in with my mates?

FatAnkles · 21/08/2021 18:51

@CovidCorvid

Apparently the Regent in Edinburgh is a lesbian bar. So Emily’s won’t be the first.
But does the Regent allow everyone or does it have rules like Emily's?
CovidCorvid · 21/08/2021 19:14

Funny you should say that........

Quite! Grin

And yes, I’d have thought that not allowing entrance on the basis of sexuality would fall foul of equality laws?

Jinkiesfred · 21/08/2021 19:21

There's a bar in soho that doesn't allow men in full stop unless they have a female handler/ escort so along the lines of no cis men etc ...it works quite well as a female only space

Jinkiesfred · 21/08/2021 19:23

"The history of gender, particularly within the lesbian community, is so complex."

...its actually really bloody not that complex, the history of lesbians IS EXCLUSIVELY WOMEN. THATS THE POINT

Griefmonster · 21/08/2021 19:26

@Jinkiesfred How does this bar in Soho define a lesbian? Or indeed a woman?

Griefmonster · 21/08/2021 19:29

@Jinkiesfred Sorry I see your follow up. Indeed.

Mrsjamin · 21/08/2021 19:56

£10 says it never happens.
I still have absolutely no idea how you can be lesbian / gay and nonbinary. I just don't get the mental gymnastics that says that you're into people the same sex as you when you say you have no gender. If you have no gender how are other people the same sex? If you are nonbinary, how can you define your sexuality if you're not pansexual? HmmConfused

AtlasNeverShrugged · 21/08/2021 21:06

Let's face it, Pink News would never celebrate a genuine lesbian bar. There's only one type of "lesbian" they like...

Griefmonster · 21/08/2021 21:17

@Mrsjamin

£10 says it never happens. I still have absolutely no idea how you can be lesbian / gay and nonbinary. I just don't get the mental gymnastics that says that you're into people the same sex as you when you say you have no gender. If you have no gender how are other people the same sex? If you are nonbinary, how can you define your sexuality if you're not pansexual? HmmConfused
Agree. There is zero chance this person will open a bar of any kind under their own steam.
QueenPeary · 21/08/2021 21:37

I wonder if there are possibly lesbian venues in Edinburgh that Pink News doesn't know about.

EastWestWhosBest · 21/08/2021 21:43

So the story here is ‘student drops out if uni saying that they are going to start a business’. How is that news? I said all sorts of shit at that age.

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