@shizuku
You talk about respecting people’s identities.
If you meet someone for the first time and they clearly look like a man , deliberately have dressed and groomed as a male .
Then how are you supposed to know they don’t want to identify as he . By choice . And don’t want certain pronouns used, such as he or she ?
Why would that be disrespectful to not know the history or choices of that person and the fact they don’t want to use pronouns ?
Honestly this whole thread is confusing to me and all I see is criticisms , but no real solutions offered .
Genuine question as I am trying to read the information on here and your post I found confusing .