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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

This is why mumsnet is considered transphobic

115 replies

gingerginger2 · 16/07/2019 08:20

Syntax

jayhulme.com/blog/warinwords

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Doyoumind · 16/07/2019 16:14

Losing it on here? Not really.

So much irony in that blog though.

Why does it always come down to existence? They exist. Of course they do. I don't care if they exist. Everyone is free to live their own life imo.

When it comes down to rights, women's rights (for females) do matter and we will defend them.

I've never been gender conforming. I've been misgendered (and not cared). I don't care how people dress. It doesn't matter what they say, I am not transphobic.

Jay should spend some time on MN and realise A, there's a lot more discussed here than feminism and B, we make some very good points.

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 16/07/2019 17:22

Jay's alleged 'command of language' appears as transparent as all the other TRA nonsense.

There are numerous regular posters here who could write Jay off the page. You for one, Datun.

Datun · 16/07/2019 18:01

Blush blimey that is indeed high praise. You were the poster who first opened my eyes to the entire issue. With yer eloquence and yer big wordy stuff

Aspley · 16/07/2019 18:01

Dear me. The selfishness is what astounds me.
Not everything is about them.
I find cis offensive as quite honestly I am not cis. My friend put me at an 8 on the Mermaids gender scale - how on earth then can cis be accurate for me?
No lesbian can possibly be cis, even if they are femme, the very fact they are homosexual means they are not fitting in with the expectations of their sex.
It is a daft term and is offensive simply because it is so often used incorrectly.

Datun · 16/07/2019 18:04

Well quite, Aspley. Cis is the result of a tortured function that tries to find a category for everyone but yourself - but only in reference to yourself.

And even if one doesn't disagree with the word cis in principle, in practice it will apply to hardly anyone.

StroppyWoman · 16/07/2019 19:15

As they moderate comments on the blog, I'm fairly sure any criticisms won't appear!

TurboTeddy · 16/07/2019 19:28

I'm surprised that the thread title and distress flares sent up by the watchers haven't result in an infestation of derailers maybe they need dinner before they get to work.

YourSarcasmIsDripping · 16/07/2019 21:24

They understand the power of definition and expression, and try to destroy and twist language to their own aims.

Like TRAs tirelessly try to do ,every single fucking day pissing over the definition of woman, breast feeding,periods etc.

They are trying to erase women. To make women and their rights and protection obsolete, and any protest against that is transphobic.

Fuck that!

BoronationStreet · 16/07/2019 23:06

Ok so I read that blog on my lunch break and commented, in detail, about why he was wrong. I was very articulate and used no offensive terms.

Sadly, my comment was not accepted yet others supporting him have been since I submitted my comment.

This is the problem with the whole debate. It's not one.

NotTerfNorCis · 16/07/2019 23:09

I see Jay is upset about reactions to their article.

Jay, if you're reading this, nobody 'hates' you! We just don't agree with what you wrote, that's all. Please come and talk to us.

Ereshkigal · 16/07/2019 23:15

I see Jay is upset about reactions to their article.

I'm sure.

JoyceJeffries · 16/07/2019 23:20

He’s posted 5 positive comments - probably all friends and family. What a plank.

Juells · 17/07/2019 08:58

NotTerfNorCis

That's very 1984 meets Puritan witch hunt. 'Your words seem innocent, but we know they have secret, evil meanings!'

...and that cat isn't a pet, it's a familiar Angry

NotTerfNorCis · 17/07/2019 10:12

that cat isn't a pet, it's a familiar

That explains a lot about the cat's behaviour. Hmm

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 17/07/2019 11:12

I’ve always called them the familiars. I watch too many vampire movies too.

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