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Caroline Farrow Support Thread

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GeordieGenes · 01/04/2019 23:05

Caroline, I am honestly almost in tears looking at your Twitter feed tonight. Sad

Her kids have been doxxed by the good doctor.

She is continuing to receive harassment from TRAs. Someone has just sent a pizza to her house.

We all need to get behind her. They think she's a weaker target because of her Catholic views, I'm sure. Let's get on Twitter and report everyone that is sending her abuse.

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JessicaWakefieldSVH · 02/04/2019 12:31

I found this particularly disturbing and can’t imagine how Caroline feels receiving this kind of abuse and harassment

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RedToothBrush · 02/04/2019 12:32

Wow.

There a lot of 'appeal to authority' propaganda technique on this thread.

'I know the law so bow to me.'

Except that law is one of those things where it can be argued and not everyone agrees. And it can be terribly nuanced in certain circumstances.

Using status of saying 'I know the law shut up' can be an attempt to intimidate in its own right by trying to make others feel inferior or powerless by asserting status and rank. Its using big words and scary language to make others who don't have that skill feel they do not have a valid position. Its rot. Its frequently used a lot on the Internet in online disputes and is very often full of shit when you look into it.

Just y'know saying.

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 02/04/2019 12:33

I'm sorry you have to deal with these unpleasant, unhappy people Caro

know that in this you have many people behind you, wishing you strength

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 02/04/2019 12:33

This is so out of line, I sincerely hope the GMC reconsider his licence. Who would want this individual treating them?

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KatvonHostileExtremist · 02/04/2019 12:33

My favourite bit was where they said "you identified as a lawyer " Grin

Tag me all you want mate.

You didnt answer my question about why you and harrop keep referring to golf in relation to gender critical women and events. Why are you even mentioning it? I don't understand.

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 02/04/2019 12:34

Glad I’ve not got a record of convictions for crimes of dishonesty.It’s something that follows you around. People judge you on it.

Indeed. Much like tweets about a journalists children.

HavelockVetinari · 02/04/2019 12:36

"Currently identifies as a lawyer" GrinGrinGrin

Carowiththegoodhair · 02/04/2019 12:37

Interesting. There is a support thread for me because Adrian Harrop has admitted stalking my children online.

Stephanie Hayden, who was born with a male body, has come on here to deny and defend the blatent harassment with threatening legalese.

Let’s be clear. There is an abusive website which has doxed my family, abused my husband, doxed my ex, blamed my ex for the fact he published innocent photos of my children and which has amongst other things discussed disfiguring my face with acid. It has also made sexually humiliating and abusive comments, posted photos of sex toys which it says I need, last night made yet another physical threat of violence and Stephanie Hayden has come on here to defend one of the people involved.

The police interviewed a suspect and did not take it further because he denied it was him. He said it was a team of 8-15 of them. The police did not think that the website merited IT forensics. So the abuse continues.

Stephanie is defending a woman who is the perpetrators best friend and who herself, started posting about educational arrangements for my childten to validate her contempt of me. A woman who took to Twitter to claim I faked a miscarriage.

Stephanie Hayden this morning RTed Dr Harrop’s implied accusation that I had said appalling hateful things about gay men and AIDS. Based on a clearly doctored screenshot.

My personal opinion is that Stephanie Hayden is enabling and supporting abusive behaviour.

littlbrowndog · 02/04/2019 12:39

Yeps red exactly.

Stop women speaking where ever they speak

Frighten them

Demand answers

KatvonHostileExtremist · 02/04/2019 12:41

You're right. The children haven't been doxxed.

The threat is potentially there though, with the phrase "Ripe for plucking "

Do you know what a decent person would have done on seeing such information, even about someone they hate? A quiet word? Is that not possible even in this hate fest?

I don't believe for a minute caro would have left her profile open like that, but if she had, it's a vile thing to use it to attack her as a bad mother.

No one wants kids involved in this shit.

Christ I hope you lot just leave her alone now, and I'd advise her to ignore you too!

Carowiththegoodhair · 02/04/2019 12:41

Please don’t delete the thread Mumsnet. It’s very enlightening.

The woman whom Stephanie is supporting was the first one to try to dox my children and has been a key part of the concerted online harassment.

Unlike Stephanie I have no criminal record for violence and fraud and I am not disbarred from qualifying as a solicitor should I so choose.

happydappy2 · 02/04/2019 12:42

Carro we're all here for you
Lets ignore the derailer, they can start their own thread-this is not about them but SUPPORT FOR CARRO

Datun · 02/04/2019 12:42

An individual, known for leaping on everything they can in order to litigate against people who disagree with them, simultaneously criticises women for knowing about their past court appearances, when the individual concerned actually leverages them to intimidate a woman. And posts pics of her husband's work place, to nail it home.

Said individual then pretends because they didn't actually say the woman's name, they were doing no such thing.

It's the Jasper Carrott sketch of Twitter.

What are you doing???

Nothing, mum.

NotBadConsidering · 02/04/2019 12:42

Flowers Caro

Carowiththegoodhair · 02/04/2019 12:42

The children were doxed. The abusive blog which Stephanie chooses to defend published identifying information NOT related to Instagram.

That’s a separate thing cooked up by Dr Adrian Harrop and the Drewitt Barlows.

GeordieGenes · 02/04/2019 12:42

Steph: why do you never visit Kiwi Farms and try to prove those posters wrong? Why always Mumsnet?

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JessicaWakefieldSVH · 02/04/2019 12:47

I want to focus on this being a supportive space for Caroline, I disagree on many issues with you but I absolutely cannot stand by and say nothing while people continually harrass and intimidate you and your family.

I have sent the following to MNHQ, I would be very angry if they remove this thread based on reports from a person who here refers to us as ‘extremists’ and this as a ‘battle’. They are here to harrass.

I’d also like to remind MNHQ & all users of the coercive control video...

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littlbrowndog · 02/04/2019 12:50

Nuttersnet. Omg how teenage 🤣🤣🤣🤣

DpWm · 02/04/2019 12:50

The police did not think that the website merited IT forensics. So the abuse continues

You need to talk to them again. This is not good enough.
You need to report crimes of intimidation, targeted harassment and malicious comms committed by both AH and SH. The police actually know who these people are. They don't need to try finding them.

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 02/04/2019 12:53

The police actually know who these people are.

They do, and they’ll know the previous criminal history regardless of any possible name changes, if that has occurred, and it won’t matter how long ago any criminal acts, if they exist, were committed.

KatvonHostileExtremist · 02/04/2019 12:57

I've quite enjoyed Stepho being here.

I'm imagining them getting crosser and crosser and redder and redder, just like on that video Grin

Carowiththegoodhair · 02/04/2019 12:58

I know this is crazy but I am actually too frightened to go to the police and can’t face going through it all again.

I’ve been so many times over the past few years with the same group of people, whom Stephanie is defending, and they just never do anything and blame me.

A man called me a Catholic slut. Talked about my Catholic p*y. Posted photos showing he was 3 minutes walk away. Revealed my husband’s private mobile number etc. And they did nothing.

Meanwhile Harrop & Hayden minimise, defend and even blame me for their behaviour. Every day I get emails from Match or PoF or sex toy boutiques, despite unsubscribing & spamming. Yet Harrop & Hayden claimed I had put in the fake orders of sex toys myself.

I am seriously at the end of my tether but will not bow down to these bullies.

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 02/04/2019 13:00

Please don’t delete the thread Mumsnet

I'm pretty sure that at the moment they are standing firm despite complaints. At least that is what I infer from the angry tweets from a self-identified lawyer.

ToeToToe · 02/04/2019 13:00

Steph is desperate for Nuttersnet to happen. It's not happening.

Most of us are mums, Steph. You already had one woman arrested in front of her children - and do I take it from your posts above that you are trying to trace another? To have her arrested too?

And you're here - on a support thread for Caro - trying to defend the most violent and misogynistic threats. Like the threat I've attached here. Like the tweet 'liked' by Mr Harrop calling her a 'Catholic cunt'. Shame on you, Steph.

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playmobile · 02/04/2019 13:01

Steph: "What did (or did not happen) back in the 20th century is of no relevance whatsoever. Everyone has heard it, read it, and quite frankly are now bored by it."

Just pointing out that that's factually incorrect at the time of posting, so to continue stating this would be a lie. I'm sure you wouldn't lie, Steph.

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