I too donated to the victim of the Welsh footballer.
It was shocking to see what she went through - two court cases - yet the rhetoric seemed to be "he's had his life ruined" 
Last I heard, he had re-joined his football club, had a baby with a gf who stood by him, regular cutesy headlines in the tabloids. Hardly a life ruined.
Whereas she has had to leave her home, her friends, has been outed, threatened, publicly vilified, and left the country.
Jean - you stopped that man re-joining Sheffield when he was first released, you raised money for his victim, and you raise money for vulnerable women everywhere. I applaud you, and I wish you the very best, and the very best news. 