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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Dark and stormies all round! Bluestocking piss up

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QuentinSummers · 08/06/2018 23:05

A friendly place for feminist or general chit chat. Welcome all!

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AngryAttackKittens · 16/06/2018 01:58

I would if I didn't have a cat! He's such a cutie, I hope she figures something out to make him feel more secure when she's not there.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 16/06/2018 07:45

I've been away. I saw the guidelines before I left, but due to limited Internet I have not kept up. WTF has happened?

AngryAttackKittens · 16/06/2018 08:36

There were some "clarifications". They didn't go over to well with many commenters.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/site_stuff/3277316-Mumsnet-moderation-of-trans-rights-and-gender-critical-issues-II?watched=1&msgid=78695089#78695089

Rufustheyawningreindeer · 16/06/2018 10:04

I was ok with the guidelines...the clarifications confused the shit out of me

Waddlelikeapenguin · 16/06/2018 11:49

rufus exactly that for me too.
I think they just want us to bugger off Sad

I would love a newspaper to discuss Justine's previous free speech comments with her...

ISaySteadyOn · 16/06/2018 11:51

I have just been brave for me and posted on that situational awareness thread. Would some of you have a look and tell me what you think of my post? I don't know if it is any good but I needed to say it.

ErrolTheDragon · 16/06/2018 17:10

I've not RTFT but your posts made a valid point.

ISaySteadyOn · 16/06/2018 21:23

Thanks

TheChampagneGalop · 17/06/2018 20:18

How is everyone?
Feminist chat seems to have changed a bit since last time I visited. Lots of new usernames and some bickering.
I am confused by the change in talk guidelines after Justine stood up for MN feminists.

LighthouseSouth · 18/06/2018 11:47

yes, and also it was mentioned upthread that some posters seem to have changed a lot. I'm seeing that now!

boring personal update - trying to up my workouts and today was meant to be day 2 for a tough one, but I'm like, ugggh....so maybe I won't.

I'm not trying to be Tomb Raider but I had a lot of aims for end of summer and wanted to work out outside as much as possible while the summer was still occurring. Fit in around shifts and planning can go a bit AWOL!

I know a firefighter who works out 2 hours a day almost every day. I don't know how she does it. I do know that if I'm stuck in a fire I want her to rescue me though!

LighthouseSouth · 18/06/2018 17:04

confused
so Munroe Bergdorf didn't give her talk on Saturday?

Doesn't seem to be much comment about it.

I have done my workout. Mentally moaned for the first 20 minutes but after that it was fine. Not joining the fire service, but you know, getting fitter Grin

tomorrow no chance to work out at all so automatic rest day. I can already tell I'm going to need it!

BeyondSceptical · 18/06/2018 17:13
Rufustheyawningreindeer · 18/06/2018 17:16

Just popping in to take the joint off beyond...as its a non smoking pub and all Grin

(She can have it back after she's given me some shots)

Well done on the workout light Cake

LighthouseSouth · 18/06/2018 17:17

@BeyondSceptical

If I didn't have asthma, a joint would win every time.

(not really convinced I have asthma....be interesting to see what happens to the lungs of a born & raised & long living Londoner if she moved to a place with clean air...)

not sure if I'd get higher on clean air or a joint! Grin

tell us your troubles, if you want......

BeyondSceptical · 18/06/2018 17:22

Actually, think I'm gonna have a hot bath and put something loud on save weed for bed time
Just shut the world out for a bit, everything is overwhelming me atm

LighthouseSouth · 18/06/2018 17:27

I feel for you Beyond Flowers

BeyondSceptical · 18/06/2018 17:47

Thanks lighthouse :)

Sorry, I realise I am vaguenetting. Everything is just crap and it feels too big to even start talking about, its an amalgamation of everything being wrong at once.

LighthouseSouth · 18/06/2018 17:51

@BeyondSceptical

never worry, it's a pub, not VagueBook Grin

it's fine to say it's all shite and I don't know what to do.

I'm a big fan of Grey's Anatomy. Sometimes on the show, they say, if you don't know where to start, start anywhere. Just pick somewhere. Just sharing that in case it's useful - it has been helpful to me in the past.

Weezol · 18/06/2018 18:06

Pint of Yorkshire tea please. Thankee.
I'm watching House box sets for the nth time and finding it very hard not to shout out 'It's not lupus!' at inappropriate times.

R0wantrees · 18/06/2018 18:37

I really got into House a couple of years ago and then Netflix pulled it without warning mid-January. I'm still not over this as it would have been perfect watching through the winter months! Sad

BeyondSceptical · 18/06/2018 19:00

Ah I keep meaning to watch house and not getting round to it. Must try harder...
And will remember it isn't lupus Grin

BeyondSceptical · 18/06/2018 20:18

I now have rhubarb gin and soda water (was the only mixer I had - it's not too bad actually)

Melamin · 19/06/2018 20:22

I have accidently poured myself a gin and Madagascan cola Confused I thought it was the pink tonic water.

I've been trying to work out who old I was when I knew what colour my eyes were. It was about 5/6. I used to ask people and get different answers. I thought they were blue but they're not.

R0wantrees · 19/06/2018 20:29

Are they bluey-greeny-grey? I think this type can change a bit. I would say I have green eyes but am pretty sure when I was small, I was told or described them as blue....

BeyondSceptical · 19/06/2018 20:34

Mine are bluey greeny grey and yeah, they change colour
Kind of like the sea Grin

Dark and stormies all round! Bluestocking piss up