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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

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JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 05:32

Am I allowed on here with my kids both grown up? 🤔
I just wanted to say omg thank you thank you thank you SO MUCH for your support for the crowdfunder to keep Labour all-women shortlists just for... err... women. £22,000 now and my sisters here booted it into the mainstream.
Anyway will check back in case anyone has questions.
You Are Mighty
Jen 😘😘😘

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JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:26

Oh mate I hear ya. Keep going hopefully a Corbyn gov't not too far away and things will improve for you. I was a single mum for most of it- no picnic.

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JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:29

Ultimate respect for education staff - no harder job. Dont be afraid to speak yr mind. The debate will be had. Xxx

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JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:30

We are lucky to have you 😘

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exLtEveDallas · 07/02/2018 06:30

I work with an older bloke who is an active Labour member, campaigning and the like.

We were chatting in the staff room and he said something like "Well you should sign up, we need women like you on board" and I had to say "Actually, I've only just cancelled my membership" - looooong conversation ensued.

Anyhow (tl;dr) his parting comment was "What a load of absolute bollocks, that's not Labour, I'll be bringing this up and the next meeting, mark my words"

Peak-trans by proxy!

DistaffSide · 07/02/2018 06:31

Cheers,

and I'm just being a bit grumpy! I am appreciated at least and I get a bit of flexibility to duck out for assemblies and things so I don't have it as bad as many.

JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:33

Ahh yr very kind.. I think I just have no filter... open my mouth and out it comes. But women DON'T have dicks, right? This shd not be controversial... 🙄 X

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KatVonSweet · 07/02/2018 06:33

Jennifer, you're a brave lady.

Such is the world I have to hide here just to say "a penis is a male sexual organ" .
All this identity politics
Meanwhile the poor get poorer and the rich get richer

Terftastic · 07/02/2018 06:34

Thanks for coming over here Jennifer, and thanks for making your stand.

Without Mumsnet I would have no idea this was happening - so we need to spread the word on self ID far and wide.

JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:36

No!!! Don't cancel. Stay and fight. This is OUR party and we need all hands on deck! The tables will soon turn and we have to be ready. Www.labour.org.uk 😘😘

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DistaffSide · 07/02/2018 06:38

'Women don't have dicks', even 5 years ago that wouldn't have been a controversial statement.

I also like

'Woman is not a feeling'

Dallas it's getting the message out there. Most people I speak to haven't heard what's going on in terms of AWS or wider trans and as soon as they do, they're angry.

JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:38

Hey babe... i didnt know much about it before twitter. The amazing @magdalenberns radicalised me. Xx

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DistaffSide · 07/02/2018 06:40

Anyhoo, I've got to get on. Jennifer and all, have a great day! Grin

JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:41

It's a hard one to get through, we all reflexively want to help the marginalised. But this one comes down to:
Our safety and representation matters more than yr need for validation.

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Terftastic · 07/02/2018 06:42

"Women don't have dicks" is soooo my mantra now. It really is just a fact.

"Woman is not a feeling inside a man's head" - also very good.

Crazy times.

SophoclesTheFox · 07/02/2018 06:43

Morning Jennifer! Another donor here, checking in to say THANK YOU for putting your head above the parapet and a massive splurge of good luck for the fights that lie ahead of you! You are right - people might not like it, but that doesn't change it.

JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:43

You too sweetie i'm going for a ciggie myself will check in another time. 😛

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rb67 · 07/02/2018 06:45

Thankyou Jen for being willing to take this on x

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JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:45

Thank you for yr support my lovely. Keep yr fingers crossed.. it ain't over till it's over. 😎

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Nottheduchessofcambridge · 07/02/2018 06:45

Morning! I’ve been up since 4:45, couldn’t sleep as I have neck pain and I’m sure someone swapped my pillows for rocks! Well done Jen, keep up the good work, Trans rights should never come at the downfall of women’s rights.

SophoclesTheFox · 07/02/2018 06:47

I've said it a few times on here, but it's important to remember that being gender critical and resisting the transactivists is helping the marginalised.

  • lesbians who are being pressured into accepting the lady dick
  • gender non conforming young people whose issues with gender may stem from autism or sexual abuse, or of growing up in homophobic households
- women who want to be able to compete in their sports without men charging in a beating them - women and girls who don't want males changing in their changing rooms, their hospital wards or performing their intimate exams.

All vulnerable groups that I want to carry on sticking up for. Aggressive males, not so much.

Korez · 07/02/2018 06:47

I'm not into politics, but safe spaces for women is something I feel very strongly about. What would be the most straight forward way of letting my opinion be known?

TheNerevarine · 07/02/2018 06:48

^What they said. Thank you for everything you've done. I think a lot of people peaktransed because of the crowd-funder and I suspect it will be exponential.

I've finally joined the Labour Party. I was considering it for a while, but this was the push I needed. I know some of the LP campaigners round here a little bit, and I suspect they don't really know the full implications of self-ID.

JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:50

I'm not brave at all... can't get in a lift or on a plane... TERRIFIED!!! 😬😂😬

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JenniferJames · 07/02/2018 06:51

Thank you babe... justice means balancing rights xx

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