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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bluestocking lock in!

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QuentinSummers · 29/01/2018 22:00

Posted a whole thing on the last thread and it was locked!

Last thread here
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3062013-The-Bluestocking-is-open-for-business
Here's my post replying to Moth
Thats an interesting article moth. Best not on the board or MRAs would be all over it!
I was wondering today, hopefully, if the news about darts getting rid of the girls means the overton window is shifting and maybe p0rn will become less acceptable?
If not all this hooha about F1 girls and the presidents club is just tinkering on the edges.

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 10/02/2018 10:42

On chat right now - teen boy in womens changerooms - mother claims he's a she, OP getting a hard time.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/3163982-Oh-my-lord-it-has-actually-happened-to-me

HairyBallTheorem · 10/02/2018 21:31

Stiff gin please!

There is tag-team mansplaining going on elsewhere on the boards, plus a couple of handmaidens who have decided that because smear tests involve a speculum rather than fingers they can't see what the fuss is about re. wanting a female HCP to do them.

May have to go on a thread-hiding frenzy.

HairyBallTheorem · 10/02/2018 21:39

Fortunately there's a lovely BODMAS thread going on, so I can take refuge in reminiscing about my lovely old reverse Polish notation calculator. Oh how I miss it.

(Feels pleasant wave of nostalgia for old tech... Remembers she occasionally still has to program in FORTRAN. Feels less nostalgic, but more antediluvian).

AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 10/02/2018 21:41

Just listened to Ben Shapiro on the Sports Illustrated thing. I don't often agree with him , but ffs, what the fuck is empowering about that shit

athingthateveryoneneeds · 10/02/2018 21:46

MRAs are plopping around the boards recently, it seems.

rowdywoman1 · 10/02/2018 21:56

Well it's very busy round here at the moment - I can't keep up.
There's a lot of light being shed on some very unpleasant issues at the moment and it's getting quite a reaction.

Takes a moment to breathe deeply and consume Wine without choking ...

Sarahjconnor · 10/02/2018 22:17

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rowdywoman1 · 10/02/2018 22:33

Yes Sarahjconnor! Brilliant idea. I listened to the Nick Robinson interview with Paris Lees - total self absorption . The rest of the world, needs / rights / laws seen solely through their own narrow experiences and wishes.

Sarahjconnor · 10/02/2018 22:35

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 10/02/2018 22:41

There is tag-team mansplaining going on elsewhere on the boards, plus a couple of handmaidens who have decided that because smear tests involve a speculum rather than fingers they can't see what the fuss is about re. wanting a female HCP to do them

Gawd. I haven't seen that one. In the thread I mention above people are saying that a 14 year old boy in the womens changerooms is 'just a child' and that since the OP can't be 100% sure he was a boy that it shows that gender isn't rigid and that we could have undressed in front of 100s of men before, etc. etc.

Lonelystarbuckslover · 10/02/2018 22:53

I note that two gender critical writers have been hounded off Twitter by MRAs.

One of whom publicly documented her mental health issues this year...it's really shitty that people who's demands are centred around their risk of suicide targets someone who has shared mental health issues.

AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 10/02/2018 22:58

Who lonely?

Ereshkigal · 11/02/2018 09:18

Someone should definitely do that Sarah!

HairyBallTheorem · 11/02/2018 09:51

But if Ross Kemp were to feel feminine when he put on a dress, surely Stonewall would have to admit him under the trans umbrella...

BeUpStanding · 11/02/2018 16:26

Mind if I join you? It's bloody mental out there! I've been a serious lurker on the boards for years, but #peaktrans has radicalized my feminism and driven me to my feet in rage... here seems the place to pull up a chair and take a moment to breathe / swig gin Grin

AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 11/02/2018 16:31

Yeh! Always good to meet another GC woman! Welcome Standing

What peaked you?

BeUpStanding · 11/02/2018 16:46

I can't even remember now which particular event was the straw that broke the camel's back. My concern has been steadily growing for maybe a year or so, but it was a few weeks ago when I fell head first down the rabbit hole and learnt about TRAs, ladydicks, the cotton ceiling, truscum etc etc etc

BeUpStanding · 11/02/2018 16:54

It seems activity on the FWR board recently spiked due to #peaktrans? Is it like your favourite pub suddenly becoming trendy, or more like a party that suddenly kicks off after midnight?!

BeyondTerfyCassandra · 11/02/2018 17:07

The board does seem to have gone a tad loopy since the labour women's shortlists!!

And there seems to be a particularly high quantity of MRAs here this weekend too? Or is that just me?

BeUpStanding · 11/02/2018 17:10

Definitely a few MRAs, but it seems they're sparking some cracking debate though

TallulahWaitingInTheRain · 11/02/2018 18:13

I like a busy pub

MRAs always come in flocks*. I wouldn't say it's particularly out of the norm for a visitation. A bit more transplopping maybe?

*whats the collective noun for mras anyway?

leghairdontcare · 11/02/2018 18:19

Hello! Had to pop in to let you all know about this corker from my MIL today.

There seems to be a lot more abuse going on these days, maybe women are becoming more annoying.

ShockHmmConfused all the emojis! Had to change the subject and let her off because FIL died this week.

terryleather · 11/02/2018 18:31

...staggers in.....

Please can I have a (very large) Dark & Stormy, with a Bushmills chaser.

I've finally gotten round to filling in the Scottish Consultation on the GRA and it has

a) taken all day due to how much I had to say

b) given me the absolute radge, I had no idea there would be any consideration of the fucking complete and utter bs that is non-binary.

Seriously in what universe could a government even begin to think about considering any kind of legislation regarding that nonsense???

I can't even...

Riverside2 · 11/02/2018 19:02

@leghairdontcare

She said WHAT?

I'm amazed you didn't say "yes, some people are getting more annoying" and then follow it up with a slap to make your point!

TallulahWaitingInTheRain · 11/02/2018 19:11

terry 🍹

I tried to come up with some sort of response to your post but I can't even either