"Tell me how many people could have been convicted for squeezing a girl's arse, nearly every guy could be up for that."

[DuelingFanjo]

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would nearly every man be up for that? Surely this kind of thing isn't normal behaviour even for men!

Good for you BlackBess (love the name) - it's amazing how we can feel so bad for "ruining someone's life" when it's them who has actually done it.

I can't think of many of the men i know ( plenty) who would just randomly pinch the arse of a stranger.

i know a coupkle who would piss taking pinch the arse of someone they knew and who they know would take it in the spirit it was meant.

but no, i do not believe that all men would be up for a conviction should that have been a crime

What a charmer
A few guys are complete twats, especially in clubs i've found. I'm a student and i do go out fairly regularly with my friends and there is one club that we completely avoid now as any female in the group will get harassed. It came to a head a few months ago when i was walking to the bathroom and 3 twats grabbed my arse on the way . The last one pulled me up against him and said "i'm so going to fuck you tonight"! Then when i shoved him off he grabbed me again and said "I don't care if you aren't interested I am" Yuck Yuck Yuck! I slapped him and the bouncer (who had been standing watching this) yelled at me as "he was only having a laugh" and "I should take it as a compliment as it meant i was hot" . I've made sure to get the message out to everyone I can to avoid this place now and none of my friends go in there at all now (unfortunately i am not the only one something like this -or worse- has happened to in there).
I'm glad the Ndubz guy has been caught out over this and everyone took it seriously. its so completely unacceptable and I am certain that none of my male friends would ever do this to a stranger. I just don't get why anyone would think that kind of behaviour was ok.