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5'8 and 11st..

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oldcatlady88 · 22/06/2022 12:33

Would you say 5'8, 11st and a size 14/16 is big?

OP posts:
PumpkinSpicedLatte22 · 23/06/2022 15:59

I'm 5'6 and just under 12 stone, a size 12-14
Don't consider myself big at all, I carry most of my weight around my thighs and still have a mum belly from my 2nd child being born a year ago. I look at myself as average, a healthy weight and more importantly, in a self positive way. If YOU are unhappy with your weight or appearance, do something about it, don't change yourself to satisfy other people if you're already happy.

ArtVandalay · 23/06/2022 15:59

Honestly? Yes I would. I’d look pretty fat at 11 stone.

I am the same height and weigh 10 stone. And I do not look particularly slim.

But everyone is different.

kerkyra · 23/06/2022 16:13

I'm 5 foot 10 and a half and weigh 10 stone 10. I'm a 12 at the moment but as soon as I gain weight and get to 11 stone I'm back in size 14s.
Fascinating how we're all so different.

oldcatlady88 · 23/06/2022 16:23

Hopefully not too outing but seen as I'm in a bikini in my garden today.. this is my shape.

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Buythebag · 23/06/2022 16:24

Another one who's very surprised you're a size 16!

Im 5"8", 10st 8 and a size 10. In fact I'm even an 8 in some things.

Funny how people carry it so differently.

Thymeout · 23/06/2022 16:25

It's not just how tall you are. I have wide shoulders and back, long slim arms and legs. Don't go in much at the waist, or out at the front or bottom. When I'm underweight, my shoulders stick out like coat hangers and you could hang a hat on my hips. Not a good look, but I still can't get into anything under 12. I don't weigh myself, just pinch an inch. I think my basic frame weighs heavy because of the extra inches of bone. I'm 5' 6" and a half and vary between a 12 and a 14.

oldcatlady88 · 23/06/2022 16:28

My friend is the same height but is 10st8 so only half a stone less than me , and she can squeeze into a 10! I've not worn a 10 since I was about to 16! I think 14 is my size and 16 depending on the shop and comfort. I've had 2 children my youngest is 9 months and I just cannot stand anything tight on my stomach so I find I go for bottoms that are comfy on my stomach but then they look too big on my legs.

OP posts:
Buythebag · 23/06/2022 16:31

Just seen your photo OP - you have a beautiful figure - still don't believe you're a size 16!

greywinds · 23/06/2022 16:35

No you are not overweight and you look amazing. Try and enjoy your life and not worry.

I'm a stone heavier, same height, try and love myself and eat healthily and I'm a 14 in most shops.

BlibBlabBlob · 23/06/2022 16:41

You look great! I'm the same height as you, currently weighing about 11st 10lb and generally wear a size 12. My measurements are the same as yours except that I have a 31 inch waist. That's probably what's making you buy a bigger size, especially if you don't want anything tight across your stomach. But I'd say you're not really a size 14/16 in the way most of us would think.

Surprised that you have a 33.5 inch waist and 41 inch hips though, from the photo your waist looks tiny compared to your hips!

Thymeout · 23/06/2022 16:42

Looking at your photo, you're taller than me but curvier round the thighs. Mine are longer and I currently need a 40" bra, never less than 38". B or C cup depending on whether I'm a 12 or 14. For a long time, I used to wear 30/32 men's Levis because women's made me look fatter. M&S Sienna are a perfect fit. The height/weight BMI measurement is v misleading for me. Was recently in hospital and was affronted to get a personal visit at my bedside from a nutritionist. She could see immediately that I didn't need to be on a diet!

Floralnomad · 23/06/2022 16:44

The point is you look good and are a healthy weight - wear whatever size you are comfortable in . My daughter is a size 10 , practically all of her clothes are at least a 12 because she doesn’t like to be in fitted garments . I’m a 12/14 and am currently wearing a pair of size 16 shorts ( from when I was larger ) , I can pull them down without undoing the zip but I’m comfortable so who cares .

doadeer · 23/06/2022 16:47

You look really good. Very surprised you're a 16, I'd have said a 12

Whoatealltheminieggs · 23/06/2022 17:34

You look a 10 on top and a 12-14 around your hips. It looks like that’s where all your weight is. Your legs are slim as well. I’m totally differently shaped. I weigh between 12.7 and 13stone at 5ft 9.5 , weight fluctuates depending on time of the month and just carry it all over. Very straight waisted. Arms are a bit too flabby, thighs a bit too wobbly…12-14 jeans and 14 on top.

SirVixofVixHall · 23/06/2022 17:55

Wow ! You have a really amazing figure OP , you look lovely in that bikini. I would be very happy to look like that.

User46489 · 23/06/2022 18:13

I'm 5'10 and just under 11st and size 14, your size sounds fine

Preemptedyou · 23/06/2022 18:34

I find these threads so interesting. I'm 5ft 7 and when i was 11 stone i was wearing clothes that were 18 to 20. I'm now down to 8.5 Stone and I'm wearing 10 to 12 and they're not loose on me

RevoltingHumanHead · 23/06/2022 18:35

Preemptedyou · 23/06/2022 18:34

I find these threads so interesting. I'm 5ft 7 and when i was 11 stone i was wearing clothes that were 18 to 20. I'm now down to 8.5 Stone and I'm wearing 10 to 12 and they're not loose on me

Size 20?!? Within the healthy bmi parameters. How can that be?

LilyMarshall · 23/06/2022 18:37

Im also 5 feet 8. Im currently just a smidge under 9 stone and heavier than i normally am. Im a size 10. Im usually around the 8 and a half stone mark and an 8. At 40 weeks pregnant i was 11 stone.

it’s all quite meaningless.

Preemptedyou · 23/06/2022 18:39

RevoltingHumanHead · 23/06/2022 18:35

Size 20?!? Within the healthy bmi parameters. How can that be?

No idea, but i still have all my 20s as it wasn't that long ago xx

jellybeanrap · 23/06/2022 18:51

@oldcatlady88 - You look great. Are you perhaps a size 16 in clothes from shops like Zara or H and M where the sizes are small? I can barely fit into size 14 jeans in H and M but M and S ones are too big.

JaninaDuszejko · 23/06/2022 19:07

How much and what kind of exercise do you do? Your weight is in the healthy range but you might not have much muscle mass which is making you bigger than you might expect. You look great in your photos and from your measurements I'd have thought you could fit in a 12/14, agree with a PP that it might just be the shops you buy from are 'young' shops with more traditional sizing rather than vanity sizing in places like M&S.

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 23/06/2022 19:11

I'm 6ft and just over 12 and a half stone and I am only just in a 14!

Imabouttoexplode · 23/06/2022 19:22

TheFlis12345 · 22/06/2022 12:35

I am surprised you’re a size 16 at that weight. I am 5”8 and when I was just over 11 stone I was a size 12. I am now just under 10 stone and a size 10.

Ditto. Some height, same size, same recent weight loss.

Changerazelea · 23/06/2022 20:10

5ft 9 here and at 12 stone 4 I'm a size 12.