@IdaGlossop , I would have been a very similar intake to university to you & I went to a good one 😉. I count myself fortunate that my parents thought daughters should go to university just as much as sons. Not everyone did. A good friend of mine , her grandma tried to persuade her parents it was a waste of time her going to University . She ended up as a director of a global investment bank 😂 I think it is now generally recognised KC wouldn't have had a place at Cambridge under current admission requirements ( I could google it but I think a cambridge professor is on record as saying that.) But I suppose at the time he was one generation on from private tutors etc. Anyway - that time has passed. I wasn't an heiress , so had to shift for myself. I'm happy with how it's worked out so far 😂I hadn't thought about it until a few years ago , but my school ( girls ) we had an elocution lesson once a week. Bonkers.
Also to @twosmallaxolotls , I do count myself privileged my parent were big on education. Not all my friend's parents were.
Re H&M , if H wants his children to attend a public , or independent school run along public school lines , then they need to think longer term. Not impossible for them to move elsewhere and come back but they will need to be up with the curriculum,. Boys , usually entry 13 , girls , normally 11 so probably 5 - 6 years before entry. and a year before for interviews / exams etc. Which is why I'm sceptical about them flouncing again if this is their reason (school) for coming back. They can't back and forth too much.
Sorry for long post ( and for bit of a derail @jeffgoldblum 💐)