Let’s be honest here - attractive young woman, working for the Prince of Wales
Harry - spoiled, dim, not very attractive 16 year old.son of the P of W.
if he was a 16 year old from the local comp, would he have stood a chance with her?
it’s all about who he was, as in a member if the Royal Family, not who he was as a person.
and there is more than a hint of droit de siegneur about his behaviour.