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Chez Ollie - All welcome especially Not My Cats. General Cat chat thread

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TheLongRider · 13/05/2021 16:50

Time for a new thread.
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/the_litter_tray/4176669-Cat-chat-thread-the-umpteenth-the-Caf-is-open-all-welcome

I hope the cat hand over goes well.

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QueenPaw · 17/05/2021 20:41

Yeah I didn't sleep last night, had a panic attack this morning then cried until I started work 🙄
Bloody covid

Fluffycloudland77 · 17/05/2021 20:47

Oh that’s awful Queen, I really hope they can come up with something for you.

Do you have to remortgage? A colleague of dhs was £30k upside down and had a mortgage so he had an Iva instead and kept his house.

We rented with Asbo.

Supersimkin2 · 17/05/2021 20:49

Im so sorry sweetie. Well done you on getting the valuation in quick. Smart move. IMHO lenders want you - you worked through lockdown, unlike many, you are not weighed down by dependants, you have a reliable income. Right now that’s way better than a lot of people.

Most important: have you eaten anything? Cup of tea ☕️ too. After the food force yourself to do breathing exercises for 15 minutes. What a shitty day but it’s nearly over.

coastergirl · 17/05/2021 20:50

Oh Queen, of course you need to talk. So sorry you're going through this. You and Ollie can't be parted. I've no advice really but here to listen. Also I rent and I'm allowed 2 cats.

Supersimkin2 · 17/05/2021 20:51

I rent with Capn. None of the 39 cats in the place are legal but once they’re in, they’re in to stay. So don’t worry about that.

QueenPaw · 17/05/2021 21:00

@Fluffycloudland77 I have to because I can't afford the mortgage payments on the ridiculous short term and it's coming to the end

Supersimkin2 · 17/05/2021 21:07

Have you got someone on hand to be with when you do a session of calls. Might be an idea. But tonight is for nice things only.

Supersimkin2 · 17/05/2021 21:11

That’s a problem, but a fixable one. You’re a very very long way from a disaster scenario love, but of course it’s the only one we ever imagine isn’t it. Keep the faith.

QueenPaw · 17/05/2021 21:12

I've done 45 mins on the phone to mortgage guy tonight who seems v nice and good. Valuation is online so it's all waiting now
I have had two mortgage offers before covid so everything crosse

YesItsMeIDontCare · 17/05/2021 21:18

Oh Queen! I'm afraid I have no advice for you whatsoever. I've rented ever since I split from my ex and it's always a worry when you have a cat. I've always said I'd rather be homeless than be without Leroy 😱. I can offer an understanding "been there" shoulder to cry on though.

(((Hugs)))

Supersimkin2 · 17/05/2021 21:18

Am crossing everything, Capn’s got all 4 paws crossed, lovey. Try and get an early night.

QueenPaw · 17/05/2021 21:28

Well I emailed another mortgage place earlier and have just had this back

Chez Ollie - All welcome especially Not My Cats. General Cat chat thread
Papergirl1968 · 17/05/2021 21:30

I have to admit I don't really understand, but that email is good news and you won't have to move, yes?

QueenPaw · 17/05/2021 21:33

It seems so! I'm waiting for a follow up email but he's managed to come up with that in 6hrs

Supersimkin2 · 17/05/2021 21:35

Sounds good! Definitely time for a snuggle and a cuppa.

QueenPaw · 17/05/2021 21:35

Ollie has retreated to his marshmallow bed which is now back in favour

iklboo · 17/05/2021 21:36

Feed us, mother.

Chez Ollie - All welcome especially Not My Cats. General Cat chat thread
Papergirl1968 · 17/05/2021 21:39

So glad crisis is (hopefully) averted.
There would be an outcry on here if you and the legendary Ollie had to be parted.
Hope you get some sleep tonight.

QueenPaw · 17/05/2021 21:40

I could cry. He's basically wrapped up a load of debt and given me a new mortgage for under £400pm Blush

Papergirl1968 · 17/05/2021 21:41

Those cats do NOT look like they need feeding, iklboo! Grin

Supersimkin2 · 17/05/2021 21:42

GrinGrinGrin

Papergirl1968 · 17/05/2021 21:46

Did you tell him Ollie was sadly packing Dreamies into his little red spotted handkerchief, Queen?
Is he single? Wink

swampytiggaa · 17/05/2021 21:52

@QueenPaw

I could cry. He's basically wrapped up a load of debt and given me a new mortgage for under £400pm Blush
Oh that’s incredible! So pleased for you! He must be a cat lover 💕
Fluffycloudland77 · 17/05/2021 21:54

@iklboo what has the one cat done to his paws?.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 17/05/2021 22:05

In the nicest possible way @iklboo, I hope you sleep with a gun under your pillow Grin.