I've just watched the final.- been reading comments since the start but not commented to prevent the thread showing up to me as i was always behind in watching.
Anyway I'm another who' was disappointment it was Caroline and Tom who won. Would have preferred any of the other couples - but it's not fiction so won't be the ones I like the most or feel most worthy of winning who win!!
I say it's not fiction but I think the heavy focus on their lives and trying to make it into a sob story does make the whole thing fictional - in the sense the producers control the narrative of how people come across.
The problem with Caroline "sob story" being that she is a housewife and that meant she has no identity, is that it's an extremely boring story without much to sob about. (Especially where the truth appears to be she was a SAHM out of choice and one with lots of privilege and wealth (so no seemily no struggle there at all)). It's certainly not a story worth repeating again and again without expansion. Mentioning the horse training and eventing would have made it far more interesting!
I like the sisters at the start but started finding their parts a bit tiresome after a while but took to them again the last few episodes. Which were there was less talk about their sob story of losing their childhood home.
The Welsh couple's "i want to get married and have babies and work in a leisure centre" was irritating too. (And not just to the viewer I felt in the last episide. Finn seemed irked with it.)
I've no issue with the couples' talking to camera but would like more about their thoughts on where they were and the experiences on the race and way less on repeat about whatever the producer wanted as their sob story.
Most of the couples' stories would make you feel sorry for them but the ones which were them saying same thing it just became like dripping water to the viewer.
i only found the brother's story parts did irritate at any point, because there was different things mention and wasn't just them saying 'we had a terrible childhood and grew apart" on repeat.
But contestants shouldn't need a sob story!! Just talk about how the travel has broaden their mind would do - a recognition from Caroline that her life was actually one of privilege after seeing the woman who had to pick through discarded flowers for money would have stood to her, rather than making it a of they are so lucky my life as a housewife was harder" (OK I'm paraphrasing!!), would have made her more likeable.
Apologies for the essay - you can tell it's my first post about it 😂