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The ultimatum- queer love

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Fatmamslim · 26/05/2023 14:42

Fucking hellll

Stuck in bed with flu and stumbled across this trash. I love it

Vanessa is shady AF, clear narc. Xander is a product of her abuse. She can't see how poorly she's been treated. Lexi she's her and she's calling her for it 👏

Mal, I'm not sure.

Aussie is baffling me but I suspect she's a lazy lovebomber.

Tiff is a moody child and I suspect she's verbally abusive and been stringing Mildred along for years, I'm glad she's strong enough to say its too late.

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Snugglemonkey · 27/05/2023 10:18

I am loving this too. Vanessa is a piece of work. I do not understand Rae not seeming to see anything going on with her. I really hope Xander does not go back to her.

I quite like Mal and I like Lexi. They make a nice couple. I think there is an edge to Mildred. I can imagine her and Tiff being very firey together.

I was annoyed to run out of episodes!

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Fatmamslim · 27/05/2023 19:51

I ran out of episodes a millisecond after I posted this thread and was infuriated to find no more until 31st 🤣 why have they done that! Not cool Netflix.

Is Rae just a bit dim? Like I dunno. The way she was so torn up about it the next morning and Vanessa was SMIRKING... I actually think Vanessa is a bit of a sociopath!? And what was up with her mouthing "fuck you" to Xander all night at dinner!? Something is UP.

Tiff is mega red flags. Mildred seems like she can have a side for sure, but she's definitely had enough of tiff!

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Snugglemonkey · 27/05/2023 22:47

Vanessa comes across as having some kind of personality disorder or something. It was not nice watching how Rae was so uncomfortable the morning after they had sex and Vanessa was just totally on a different page, saying something like "did you remind her how hot I am" or something ridiculous. No empathy at all. I have no idea how she sustains a relationship.

Snugglemonkey · 27/05/2023 22:47

I think Mildred will be single soon.

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Fatmamslim · 29/05/2023 21:26

Vanessa mentioned she's a influencer, does anyone know her handle? I'm so curious to know if her online persona matches this!

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EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 29/05/2023 21:55

Glad there's a chat for this, seeing a friend tomorrow who I know is watching too.

Frankly I'm surprised Tiff passed the necessary required psychological testing to be on the show. Her hysteria about her dog was utterly ridiculous.

There is something wrong with Vanessa at quite a deep level also. Lexi had her number for sure.

jay55 · 30/05/2023 07:30

Watched all so far over the weekend.
The stuff with the dog was insane. One small comment about not wanting trapped legs sets off rages for days, it was crazy and quite scary and I really felt for Sam.

Agree about Vanessa and Xander, it's nice to see Xander appreciated. And it's entertaining to see the mass of drama Vanessa causes all the time, I would hate her in real life but she's brilliant for the show:

The other fight, "making me look bad on camera". That was super uncomfortable the way it escalated. I wouldn't stay another night with someone who kicks off that quickly and ridiculously.

Instagram links for the cast.
variety.com/lists/the-ultimatum-queer-love-cast-pronouns-instagram/

RaspberryCloud · 30/05/2023 10:42

Vanessa is horrendous; her smirking, fake 'zaniness', appalling treatment of Xander...I could go on.

Her rage when Xander & Yoly were getting together was particularly telling - clearly this show was only meant to be about her! I'm so glad Lexi has her figured out.

Borntobeamum · 30/05/2023 15:44

Absolutely loved it!
My God! Lexy is advanced beyond her years!

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Fatmamslim · 30/05/2023 23:51

Well Vanessa's IG is mega boring and Tiffs is everything i expected 🤣

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jay55 · 31/05/2023 09:46

Vanessa admits in one of the comments she had another account before the show. So annoying Grin

I wonder if I could make a living cleaning up the socials of reality contestants before their shows air.

jay55 · 01/06/2023 11:23

I've watched the first of the new episodes.

I bet most of you could have written Vanessa's script in advance. Totally textbook.
Beyond vile.

wildthingsinthenight · 01/06/2023 18:54

So happy there is a thread on this!!
No one I know IRL watches it.
Ugh Vanessa is awful. Loved how her own dad seemed to be #TeamXander 😁

I'm really rooting for Yoly to choose Xander but I love Mal so that is all confusing. I really though Mal and Lexy had a strong connection but that doesn't seem evident now? I really thought Mal was having her head turned but it seems not.

What do you think of Aussie? I think she is selfish and lazy and is now kicking off because Sam has realised she has been a doormat?

wildthingsinthenight · 01/06/2023 18:55

jay55 · 01/06/2023 11:23

I've watched the first of the new episodes.

I bet most of you could have written Vanessa's script in advance. Totally textbook.
Beyond vile.

Agreed! 100% textbook. She is nasty

wildthingsinthenight · 01/06/2023 18:59

I've just remembered Vanessa mouthing "Fuck off" to Xander across the table in front of everyone.
Xander looked terrified.

I think Vanessa is so obviously gaslighting Xander now they are back together.
I really hope Xander isn't drawn back in!

DumDeeDoh · 03/06/2023 08:20

Aussie walks away anytime she is asked anything. She is clearly damaged but not ready for a relationship.

I hope Xander makes a good choice for her.

Tiff always seems like she is on the edge of blowing up.

DumDeeDoh · 03/06/2023 08:25

Has Yoly saved for IVF or does she just want her partners to do that?

wildthingsinthenight · 03/06/2023 23:48

Yes Tiff seems very angry.

Xander needs to be as far away from Vanessa as possible!

Now waiting for the next installment next week....

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 04/06/2023 18:44

Not completely up to date

But Save Xander

And Tiff and Aussie need professional help

ANewNameForSummer · 04/06/2023 23:20

Oooh this became addictive!
I really liked Xander & hope she dumps that crazy Vanessa ASAP & marries Yoli. They're really sweet together.

Vanessa is a narcissist through & through. She thought she had a complete hold over Xander & that she would go into the experiment being the Queen bee that everyone would fight over. I think it truly didn't occur to her that Xander might be a catch & might meet someone & that rocked her.

I couldn't stand Mildred. She was so abrasive & Tiff had anger issues bit in lots of cases i could see why she was so frustrated. They had shocking communication.

Aussie is very damaged & I think Sam did her best throughout & seemed like such a gorgeous person.

Rae really seemed out of her depth emotionally throughout the entire thing ; lexi is super dominant.

I don't think any of them will actually ger married & the ones with the best chance are Xander & Yoli

wildthingsinthenight · 07/06/2023 11:38

New episode today.
Going in....

DumDeeDoh · 07/06/2023 12:55

The reunion was great

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 07/06/2023 17:12

Jesus Christ Vanessa laid that on thick

"when we are both birds "

An unacceptably manipulative individual

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 07/06/2023 17:37

Going into the reunion I do think that ending to the main show was apt all things considered

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 07/06/2023 18:09

Reunion is amazing

And That's When I Found The Eyeliner

Aussie's face in general

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