I am late to this thread but so happy to find others who watched this!
I'm on the fence about Tiff. I found the whole dog rant shocking, but it seemed that after a short while, she and Sam were able to communicate very well and she learned a lot. They could have been a great pairing if the romantic spark was there.
I was also really shocked at the way Mildred's DV was glossed over, her admissions were horrific and it really seemed she was gaslighting Tiff.
I think in another relationship Tiff would be a good partner.
I really disliked Rae. I get that she was uncertain about her feelings towards Lexi, but in that case she should have broken up with her ages ago!
Loved Sam, she deserves better than what she gets from Aussie. I find Aussie's behavior very miniplulative.
Felt awful for Xander - it seemed she doesn't know how lovely she is.
Felt bad for Mal watching the reunion - that whole situation at the party, lying to get alone time with Xander, was totally shady.
For PP confused about the masculine and feminine styles of people on the show - that's not unusual, being a butch lesbian is definitely a thing, I thought it was lovely to have representation of butch lesbians on Netflix! Also lovely to see femme lesbians too, as there is a bit of prejudice whereby femmes are often presumed to be straight.