Right.
I get that this is an intense experience. I get that you are laying yourself open in the hope for love.
But I’m sorry. I don’t buy all the angst from the contestants.
They’ve been together for about a week. They don’t have to share a bed if they don’t want. They don’t have to build a relationship if there is nothing to to build on or even an attraction.they don’t even have to pussy foot around eachother’s feelings.
They are not married. They are not lovers (shaggers but not lovers). They can’t even be friends. They are at best acquaintances because they don’t know eachother.
So many of them are damaged or are there for other purposes.
You want a free holiday and a gash 15minutes of fame? Fine. But don’t come onto a programme if you don’t want to accept that your list won’t be ticked. And don’t kid onto us that this isn’t realistically engineered scripted to go with the drama.
Megan has been painted as a right bastard on here and I feel it is unfair. She isn’t feeling it. To fanny around him with platitudes or to give him false hope is a lot crueller than giving him the truth.
And Bob isn’t listening to her. She has told him and told him. She isn’t a bully or cruel or nasty. He is wanting something that has never been there.
She hasn’t even cheated. They aren’t together. They haven’t ever been. So there is no cheating.
Do I question her choice of kissee? Oh yes. He’s a dark soul. The antithesis to bouncy Bob.
But for Bob to shake his hand? That turned me off right there. All the tears and happy clappy Bob - that was the inner arsehole right there.
If everyone is saying she doesn’t respect his feelings, he displayed far more disrespect with that handshake. And the ixpert validating it? Fuxake.
Like someone said upthread, I couldn’t respect him either.
I’m sorry he is insecure. But that is a massive reason he shouldn’t have been on here. The risk of rejection is so bloody huge, his hurt was inevitable. He has admitted that he hasn’t shown her his true self. He should have.
Just because he cries and is upset and has got the crowd, it doesn’t mean that Megan is necessarily the bad bastard.
It was just a kiss. To be sobbing like that over a kiss AFTER A WEEK would have me running like Paula fucking Radcliffe.
To an extent, Morag is the same. With her honesty. Although she has just got the ick. No annoying behaviour from Luke. Just the lack of attraction.
She is an irritant but she has said how she has felt. That could change as he is a lovely chap and she could grow to want his soul. I still think though that she is there for other reasons.
The thing that confuses me is that her body language and the way she touches him. I think it is possible her heart is open to it but the head hasn’t caught up yet.
Nikita? The lass doesn’t come across well at all but I feel sorry for her. The girl has put herself out on a limb with her behaviour granted but she doesn’t deserve the rest oft gem sawing her off at the trunk.
That girl is unhappy. Deeply do I reckon. Happy people don’t act like that. It was right for her to go. I’m glad she went.
The distaste from the others would have broken her further and just would have pulled out worse behaviour - like lashing out type behaviour.
I hope she gets some counselling and help. There is a good heart thumping in there I think.
The big concern for me is the Adam Tayah thing. It is way too quick. And ixpert saying we all love love. This isn’t love. Not after a week.
Superb chemistry. Big attraction. Similar people. Absolutely. But it is at best lust and a budding friendship.
They worry me. That level of intensity so early is unnatural.
Marilyse and Fwanky? Not buying it. She might have put her hand out for him to clamp on to. Her legs are turned away from him.
I’m wondering if he is really Nick Knowles and has been at the bleach.
It all feels a bit jackanory.
And the ixpert showing concern about the distance? You should know. You matched them. It has been a week. Why get so worried about the relocation possibilities?
I’m damned sure I wouldn’t give up everything for someone after a week.
Why are the ixperts getting so worked up about that?
And Josh is just a cunt. And a nasty one at that.
He is not a victim. You put him in a room with Godzilla, John Wayne Gacy, Jeffrey Dahmer, Mr Krueger and a great white shark and that fucker would be out of that room looking victorious in 3 minutes.
He was scared she was going to hit him? What a lying bastard.
And to say what happened with Megan just for the poke?
You want a villain? There he is.
Not Megan. Not Morag. Not Nikita.
That is your Villain with a capital bastard V.
And I don’t respect any forum where they are putting humans against eachother in a gladiatorial fashion.