soup the term ignorant American was used. You attach an adjective to a nationality and it suggests you think it's a national trait. As someone who is American by birthright , I found that offensive.
Michelle is bisexual , hence my comment. You are right, I do not know who is gay : it is fairly obvious,however, when people reference their gay friends, that they aren't themselves gay.
I don't want to start a row : just to move on. I think it's getting a bit vitriolic. I am not suggesting people are being homophobic,