Paul should propose to Sam as he knows that’s what she really wants
^^this is wrong on so many levels, would you be saying this if it was the man that really wanted marriage and the woman didn’t?! I thought it was common knowledge, and sense, that pushing someone into something as serious as marriage, when they’re clearly not ready is a no go
and just because you have kids with someone then it doesn’t mean you have to be married, it’s the 21st century and marriage is so outdated imo.
I have a feeling that the posts here would be very different if it was Paul that wanted to get married and Sam didn’t, talk about double standards!
As a PP has already mentioned then giving someone a “marry me or I’m leaving you” ultimatum is shocking and emotional blackmail, I would leave if someone said that to me.
I believe that Sam knew full well that she could get pregnant when breastfeeding baby Paul, but she pretended she never because she thought baby#2 would make Paul propose but it didn’t.
Personally I wouldn’t marry someone that only asked to marry me because viewers of my tv show, my IG followers, and MN posters
were pushing him into it, I would prefer it if he absolutely worshipped the ground I walked on and thats why he asked me, I wouldn’t feel secure otherwise.