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One night with my ex

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Hisnamesblaine · 02/01/2018 23:09

God that Tom is a bit of a prick. We shall be reading about him in afew years in the relationship board......m and not in a good way😔

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Itvdrama · 02/01/2018 23:11

Thank you! I have just rewound and made DH watch his reaction to see if he thinks it was unreasonable- he spoke to her like she was a naughty child!

AnneEyhtMeyer · 02/01/2018 23:13

Bloody hell, he's scary. And the fact that he's willing to behave like that on TV means he will probably be 100 times worse off camera. She should run for the hills.

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Hisnamesblaine · 02/01/2018 23:13

Yep. I actually found it uncomfortable to watch.

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Itvdrama · 02/01/2018 23:14

Sorry, not clear, Tom spoke to ex as if she were a naughty child, not DH! Worryingly DH didn’t see that much of a problem and thought Tom’s defences were up.
It is making a bit more sense now as the conversation continues and he’s asked her before.

AnneEyhtMeyer · 02/01/2018 23:15

Why would she be remotely interested in getting back with him?

Dee03 · 02/01/2018 23:15

He is a complete Knob...total over reaction...they weren't even together ffs and it was a drink 😡

TheDogsKnees · 02/01/2018 23:16

This brings back memories of my abusive ex. I feel very uncomfortable and anxious watching him. I hope she ran for the hills

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Hisnamesblaine · 02/01/2018 23:16

Even so. His reactions are so over the top and controlling he's not even letting her answer. If she takes him back I'll be fuming!

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RebeccaWrongDaily · 02/01/2018 23:17

if i were his mother i'd be having serious words with Tom, he's awful.

she has dodged an abusive nightmare there (hopefully) and needs to run as fast as her legs will carry her far from him. He's horrible.

Bloomed · 02/01/2018 23:19

Tom makes my skin crawl.

Hoolit · 02/01/2018 23:20

I'm horrified by his reaction but as a parenthood be so upset if that was my daughter. She really needs to know when to just stop talking and walk away, she owes him nothing!

Neolara · 02/01/2018 23:21

He is hideous. At least she seems to be not too cowed by him. Really hope she sends him packing. He is grade 1 nutter - very controlling.. Living with that kind of hysteria would be exhausting.

Cuppaand2biscuits · 02/01/2018 23:22

Awful, so controlling and that's without even being in a relationship.
She needs to run.

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Hisnamesblaine · 02/01/2018 23:23

She's coping remarkably well. I would have launched a drink in his face......... like Sandy did. From a viewers perspective it's a great epidsode..... if she does take him back I shall seriously pity her x

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mishfish · 02/01/2018 23:24

I come on here specifically to see if anyone had started a thread about this and him.

I what a god awful person. It will get worse 😫

Ian76 · 02/01/2018 23:25

I was so angry as a guy to be watching this little prick.

I had to go on the internet to see of people were talking about it and had to join mumsnet to say I feel sick that this guy controls her and makes her cry

bastardkitty · 02/01/2018 23:25

He's an absolute twat. So glad you started this thread. What do you think Amy's MN username will be when she posts about her abusive relationship in 6 months time?

Neolara · 02/01/2018 23:25

Nooooooo! Don't!!!!!!!!!!

RebeccaWrongDaily · 02/01/2018 23:26

and now she's going back to him.
Where are her mates? her parents? hopefully they'll witness his behaviour and give her a wake up call.

mishfish · 02/01/2018 23:26

NOOOOO

scoobydooagain · 02/01/2018 23:26

God, if they get back together, we may be reading about her, what a controlling arse he is. Do the programme makers not have some duty of care?

WhoAmIAnymore · 02/01/2018 23:27

I was just thinking this bloke looks like a controlling manipulative and emotionally abusive arsehole!
I seriously hope that channel 5 offer counselling!!!

mishfish · 02/01/2018 23:28

Oh look he’s already being a dick. What a cunt.

bastardkitty · 02/01/2018 23:29

I actually think Amy knows. She's just not ready to walk away yet.

Eltonjohnssyrup · 02/01/2018 23:29

As soon as it started and he was laying it on so thick about how much he loved her I said to DH he was a manipulative arsehole. And then that shit - breaking her down until she cried then 'white knighting' her. Ugh.