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One night with my ex

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Hisnamesblaine · 02/01/2018 23:09

God that Tom is a bit of a prick. We shall be reading about him in afew years in the relationship board......m and not in a good way😔

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reasonsforwaiting · 02/01/2018 23:30

Wow, Tom's a controlling nightmare; feel as though I'm hiding in the corner of the sofa cringing watching this. Poor Amy.

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Hisnamesblaine · 02/01/2018 23:30

Notice how she didn't say she loved him back?

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Bloomed · 02/01/2018 23:31

I think she knows she's made a mistake. Hope she doesn't waste too much more time

Crashbangwhatausername · 02/01/2018 23:36

I confess I know very little about abuse and behaviours, but I'm shocked it's so open. I consider it quite irresponsible to have that on tv and believe they should have beeen offered counselling. I also came on here to see if anyone was talking about it

tinkertailorsoildersailor · 02/01/2018 23:36

mishfish came on here too, to see if there was a thread about 'tom'. Red flag, red flag, red flag. Just a matter of time until he is physically abusive. You could see it in his eyes. She was such an innocent. She's probably never come across anyone like that before, and thinks he'll change....

Jessie06 · 02/01/2018 23:39

Came on here just to see if a thread had been started! I feel quite worried for that girl, Twitter has the same response. She should have run while she had the chance

ellephant · 02/01/2018 23:41

So aggressive and controlling, even his leg slaps showing his violent side, that'll escalate. She should run for the hills

Toucanet · 02/01/2018 23:41

Yep I googled it to see what people were saying - on Facebook consensus that she needs to run for the hills before he's abusing her physically too, or worse. Manipulative control freak and you can only imagine it getting worse. Poor woman, hope she realises and can get out of the relationship safely (again)!

Kikir81 · 02/01/2018 23:42

That shit he gave her at the end for not saying I love u on camera, he's like all abusive partners he's inside her head! Absolute dick!

bastardkitty · 02/01/2018 23:43

He used aggression and bullying to make sure she didn't manage to speak about any of her actual concerns, hence her hesitance because nothing she was concerned about got aired. Easy to see what an inadequate little prick he was from the comfort of the sofa.

Kikir81 · 02/01/2018 23:44

The way he kept calling her Amy Cross and making her feel like shit! Fuming watching it!

Betsy86 · 02/01/2018 23:45

Glad theres a thread on this i just finished watching it like Shock
What an absolute controlling nightmare he is!!

travispink1 · 02/01/2018 23:46

Complete knob. He is massively insecure and poor Amy deep down knows, as kept taking ages to answer his 'demands' He needs a good old fashioned punch in the face. TWAT!!!

mishfish · 02/01/2018 23:47

Ugh I’m so wound up. Notice how she was too scared, when he was goading her to ask if they wanted to get back together to comment that he needs to work on his jealously (and a whole lot more).

That was horrible viewing. I’m actually worried for her right now, they’ll be reading the comments online and he will be getting so angry at her.

So irresponsible of channel 4 to put her in that situation without intervening and happily announce they’re planning a holiday.

Twitter is equally as horrified

user7680 · 02/01/2018 23:51

He could be a serial killer honestly she’s only 21 what the hell!!

Jessie06 · 02/01/2018 23:51

That's what I was thinking as well mishfish she must be reading comments online after the show but what if they are reading them together

tinkertailorsoildersailor · 02/01/2018 23:52

Yes, the leg slaps and did you see the way he was clutching the piece of cutlery he had in his hand. All cos she went for a drink, when single. Deranged, he is!

Kikir81 · 02/01/2018 23:54

Also when he said he wasn't really going to go in his interview - complete mind games, poor girl, I hope she escapes before it's too late

WhoAmIAnymore · 03/01/2018 00:05

Oh and he never answered her questions about his jealous behaviour - it was all suddenly about what she had done wrong!

MazzaMB · 03/01/2018 00:10

Poor Amy went into emotional meltdown and begged him for a cuddle. Absolute perfect example of how abuse works. I hope her parents watched tonight!!

Pogba · 03/01/2018 00:29

...Did anyone else keep thinking ‘Oscar Pistorious’? 😧

user1474894224 · 03/01/2018 00:32

Omg. I loved the first series...this was awful. I was left wondering if they have sold out and scripted the show..... surely no one would really want to be with an a*hole like Tom? Did he model himself on David Brent? They have to be actors. If it is for real no wonder he's worried about her....even I wasn't convinced she wanted to be with him....it just seemed like a stupid game between them.

Bloomed · 03/01/2018 00:35

Looking through the hashtags on twitter, a woman who says she's an ex of Tom's says he's shown his true colours (and friends of hers have been agreeing).

user1474894224 · 03/01/2018 00:40

If he's really that bad....why go on national TV?

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Hisnamesblaine · 03/01/2018 00:50

BLOOMED really????

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