Please, Icemist, no more!
You used to be part of the brilliance that was this site and it's just so sad that your posts have turned so many other funny, brilliant people away.
If you are the FF champion on twitter then dissing the FF community here is a tad disingenuous. The FF writers are not professionals. They have fragile egos and are easily discouraged, as you can see from the comments above. Have you tried writing? Why not give FF a go? It would be great to see some new writers...
Finally, while I'm sorry to hear about your DM and SIL, I'd rather you didn't bring it up as a sort of weapon aimed at anyone that disagrees with you. I think if you asked, you'd find that many people on here probably have similar problems. We're at that age in life unfortunately, when things happen to people around us. I've certainly had a bad summer. I wouldn't ordinarily mention it on here. But I do, because I believe you can't use these kinds of problems and fling them at anyone that disagrees with you. It's manipulative, PA and in terrible taste and I wish you would stop.
That's all really. I'm sorry to say it, but I've been noticing it for months now and it got too much for me yesterday.