House party with alcohol at 13?

[Duracell66]

My daughter wants to go to a girls house for a party. Only trouble is this girl had a party last month, they are all 13-14 years old. The girls mum asked they all bring their own drink but at the last party that my daughter did not go to, they were all drinking and being taken advantage of by the boys! I only know because I saw the pictures and chat on my daughters phone the day after. Now she has been invited, we do not want her to go, but she is kicking off because she claims her friends are going and she promises not to drink! What do I do?

Claybury, I agree.

There were definitely teens in DD's year group who were partying with alcohol when they were 13. DD didn't really start going to parties until she was coming up for 15 and she is one of the youngest in her year.
DS OTOH is not quite 14 and has been to a couple of parties. He assures us there was no alcohol, and he certainly didn't seem to have drunk anything, but I can't be sure.

I would never host a party for under 18's. Too much responsibility. And risk to the house!