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Non- gunty jeans

60 replies

CharlieBoff · Yesterday 13:19

Please help a gal out here.

I have recently put on a lot of weight, it’s medication and I’m working on sensible ways of losing it but in the meantime EVERY SINGLE pair of trousers I have is gunty. I have one skirt and one pair of black trousers which don’t make me look like shit but everything looks horrendous. I’d love some advice on styles that won’t make me look terrible but also go with “my vibe”. Said vibe is lots of sage, burgundy and brown, comfy vibes but still okay for the odd meeting. I love the look of tucking my many shirts into my trousers (long live the French tuck) but am avoiding it like the plague atm - if I do tuck; gunt. If I don’t tuck; massive. Please help!

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fuschiaproudparrot · Yesterday 14:51

CrystalSingerFan · Yesterday 14:28

I've just taken one for the team and Googled FUPA. Stands for fat upper pubic area. Men and women can have it.

FWIW I clicked on the thread assuming 'gunty' was a dialect term for the infamous trouser camel toe effect. #EveryDaysASchoolday.

They are both the same thing - that belly that goes right down. See pic . It's not me or a friend . It's a Google image. Dark jeans, high waist and wide legs . Avoid jeans with too much Lycra .

Non- gunty jeans
sanityisamyth · Yesterday 14:56

What does gunty mean?!

WherestheTrombolese · Yesterday 14:58

Notsosweetcaroline · Yesterday 14:31

No it’s an awful word and it’s normally used by men to be abusive about women’s bodes.

anyway, at 5 ft 2 and 15 stone, you must be an 18- 20 dress size ?

If so, then I’d suggest loose fitting tops. Gently skimming your mid area, coming down to your lower hips, and jeans or trousers to skim.

I’ve only ever heard women use it about their own bodies tbf.

Notsosweetcaroline · Yesterday 15:02

WherestheTrombolese · Yesterday 14:58

I’ve only ever heard women use it about their own bodies tbf.

I’ve only ever heard men say it, and in an unpleasant way. I’ve never heard a woman refer to her gunt,

Noshadowsinthedarkness · Yesterday 15:04

Dresses are your friend here OP.

Same gunty boat as you and hourglass dresses are my go to for meetings and in general really.

Skinny jeans and my usual length hoodies. I am a similar height and a hoody covers mine.

But to be honest I wear things that don’t hide my body too. Not my problem if people are affronted by it!

Whisperwaves · Yesterday 15:07

Awful word. Usually used by men as an insult about womens bodies.

PuppyMonkey · Yesterday 15:17

I know I’m in the minority on this board but I’ve yet to see a person who looks better with a French tuck. In my eyes, this looks utterly ridiculous on everyone. Cover your crotch, that’s my mantra. Grin

Gettingbysomehow · Yesterday 15:23

Try Snag jeans and trousers. They are especially designed for this sort of thing and the fuller figure. Im sure you will find something great on there.

Phloosie · Yesterday 15:31

Check out Salsa secret push in jeans. They smooth out the tummy area and somehow don’t dig in the way other high waisted jeans do.

FancyKitten · Yesterday 15:56

Fellow Guntress here. As if meno belly / tit-sling wasn’t enough, the meeting of FUPA & belly… Gunty, perfect word. It’s all new & most unwelcome! Old (young) me would have been mortified at camel toe, new (old) me will pack into any jeans that zip! Tucking indeed…

DustyMaiden · Yesterday 16:06

Not a nice word a portmanteau of gut and the c word.

bingobangs · Yesterday 16:17

I thought it was gunt not gunty, I wonder if they will have be fashionable

Notsosweetcaroline · Yesterday 16:42

Whisperwaves · Yesterday 15:07

Awful word. Usually used by men as an insult about womens bodies.

Exactly. I’d be so embarassed for any woman who I heard say it out loud. Especially if men present, it’s a disparaging sexist comment about a woman’s body and we should reject it, not call ourselves it,

PoliteSquid · Yesterday 16:52

Zero advice… but thank you for providing me with the best description ever for the way I look in jeans!!! I am gunty and frumpy - a winning combination 😂

MalcolmTuckersBollockingface · Yesterday 17:50

downtoearththensinksthesun · Yesterday 13:22

No advice but the title of this thread made my day 😂

Same 😂

sunseasand25 · Yesterday 17:54

I know what you mean and how you feel. I’ve been loving pinafore type dresses from nobody’s child. Can have a tight top to shop off relatively ok upper area but dress skims problem area

Lararoft · Yesterday 18:08

Ok so I have a belly that gets bloated at certain times of day or whatever, not a gunt, but basically I think high waist jeans are a total no for most women with a bigger belly.
I generally go for mid rise.. or even low rise, provided my abdo & back are covered to the (mid or lower) rise belt line of the jeans.
I just bought 2 pairs of jeans from Very (low rise baggy & mid rise 90’s straight, £35 each) & they fitted well in that area as not high waisted.
I also like Slim Straight from Next (own label) as they are mid rise too.
Its proving difficult to find wide leg jeans anywhere that are not high waisted though which is irritating!

I too can’t tuck stuff in; I try to get tops that are just below belt length, not too cropped as obviously not wanting to show any belly!

CharlieBoff · Yesterday 18:15

FancyKitten · Yesterday 15:56

Fellow Guntress here. As if meno belly / tit-sling wasn’t enough, the meeting of FUPA & belly… Gunty, perfect word. It’s all new & most unwelcome! Old (young) me would have been mortified at camel toe, new (old) me will pack into any jeans that zip! Tucking indeed…

Edited

“Guntress” has me beyond delighted! Thank you for all the recs, I am off for a jolly good Google. Sorry if you don’t like the word, I think it’s perfectly descriptive 🤷‍♀️ Never once heard it uttered by man either….

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ItsAlwaysTwins · Yesterday 18:37

I love ‘gunt’. It’s used a lot in our house.

I think if jeans are giving you a gunt, you need a longer top.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · Yesterday 18:46

A waisted top! Like a shirt, but with shirring or a self tie. It reduces the voluminous top and gives you shape, while still covering the unflattering lower torso.

I have a light jumper that is somehow shaped to fitted closely all the way to my jeans, then smooths down to the hip joint carefully covering my worst areas.

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HexInductionHour · Yesterday 18:52

Wellshellsbells · Yesterday 13:49

Is it a mish mash of gut and c u next Tuesday ? If so it’s a fabulous word!

a portmanteau !

FannybygaslightinGovan · Yesterday 19:01

Notsosweetcaroline · Yesterday 16:42

Exactly. I’d be so embarassed for any woman who I heard say it out loud. Especially if men present, it’s a disparaging sexist comment about a woman’s body and we should reject it, not call ourselves it,

I don't know what kind of men you hang around with but the men I know wouldn’t even know what a gunt is 😂

Pinkissmart · Yesterday 19:17

Fucking disgusting word

LBB2020 · Yesterday 19:18

A peplum style top might work to cover?
Have you tried sizing up so the jeans “skim over”? Agree to avoid very high waisted jeans as seems to accentuate

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