I don't know what to wear to my wedding.

[MarieBeau]

Getting remarried. Going to be a very small (just us and teen kids) registry office wedding.

I bought this months ago but have lost a little weight since and I don't think its fits right and just don't think I want to wear it now.

I think its because it's white/Ivory.

I'm in my early 40s. 9st. 5ft5.

I just think maybe its a bit too boring/traditional. Maybe just too wedding-y.

I don't know. I'm just not feeling it at all now but have no idea what I might like?!

I would opt for the Disturbia dress as it seems a special dress to me. White does not actually suit me at all. I agree it is the one to go for and would actually say buy it before it sells out!

I like it!

I also like this 😂

This one is beautiful: https://www.sixstories.co.uk/products/satin-corset-midi-dress-ivory?variant=57723587428734&country=GB&tw_source=google&tw_adid=&tw_campaign=23636399642&tw_kwdid=&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23636431157&gbraid=0AAAAABaGpNVqWXw9TVeBaJ-epAB9VxgjU&gclid=CjwKCAjw7p_UBhBlEiwAhpIs72e87MQF6KtuI1GoY-x9wlB1WoTneRi0KeZXq69p1uSi6O-zH-dT3BoCd3IQAvD_BwE

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/category/women/clothing/dresses/

They also do wedding dresses as well as occasion dresses. Have you thought about buying a fabulous occasion dress that you can wear again?

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/edits/women/bridal/

That's gorgeous! Wear whatever makes you feel good. My wedding dress was a purple silk Monsoon dress I bought from a charity shop.

(I now want it but there's none left in my size. 😟 Typical!)

We got married in jeans and t-shirt. We didn't feel the need to dress up for the registry office. We did dress up and had a second wedding and reception after covid.

Some of these are gorgeous but way above what I want to pay to just wear once. I think the prices of American Heiress. Around 140 would be my limit.

I'm a 10 and they only have 8s or 12s 😐

I know its not real but I asked AI to put me in both dresses (excuse the mess we are decorating the hall and bathroom atm and everything is in piles)

This is beautiful

The Nancy Mac crepe or velvet jumpsuits are absolutely lovely, have you considered those?

Jumpsuits/ suits aren't really for me.

This would look awesome with autumnal flowers.

If you’re planning to just wear once I’d definitely recommend renting then! It means you can rent something really amazing quality.
if you’re concerned about fit, this is a bit cheeky but I usually order the dress or similar from the designer, try it on and return it, then rent it 🫣

The Disturbia one looks amazing 🧡

Looks lovely but alas it's a scam sight . I love the dumisterbia dress though

I know it's AI - but on you I think the Disturbia one looks much nicer. The other's a lovely dress but coming over a bit more Jane Marple. The (is it green? ) first looks great and if the colour suits you perfect for Autumn.

Edit to ask - How can you tell it's a scam site @LowAndSlow ?

Check out Vinted/eBay! There are lots. Though I'd try some on at a stockist first, to find which style/size is best.

It's not a scam site, strictly speaking - just pretty dodgy & unreliable on quality & returns etc. If I want to double-check a site that's new to me, I just type in "Is XYZ a legitimate clothing site?" or similar. And the AI response pulls together internet info & reviews etc. It also provides links to, eg Trustpilot or Reddit etc. On Reddit it mentions that it used to be called Lait, but shut down & rebranded itself as reviews were so poor ... So I would definitely avoid!

https://www.reddit.com/r/findfashion/comments/1ow1e9t/trustworthy_brands_that_sell_dresses_like_these/

I love all the Disturbia clothes! Wear whatever you makes you feel amazing. Fair enough it’s not the white dress (perfectly nice) but go for what will make you feel special. Life’s too short to deprive ourselves isn’t it?

congratulations too, by the way. Have a beautiful day x

Trustpilot. Also looks too good for the price.
Poor description of item

Thank you @EleanorMc67 and @LowAndSlow .
Very appreciative of the tips 💐

What type of outfit are you thinking of? Dress? Top and skirt? Happy to wear colour?

Tell us you style! Are you looking for something quirky? I'm sure MumsNetters can find you some options!

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