I don't know what to wear to my wedding.

[MarieBeau]

Getting remarried. Going to be a very small (just us and teen kids) registry office wedding.

I bought this months ago but have lost a little weight since and I don't think its fits right and just don't think I want to wear it now.

I think its because it's white/Ivory.

I'm in my early 40s. 9st. 5ft5.

I just think maybe its a bit too boring/traditional. Maybe just too wedding-y.

I don't know. I'm just not feeling it at all now but have no idea what I might like?!

Lovely dress!

The pink one is fab

The first one is very meh. Both of your other choices are fabulous!

Its beautiful. You can make it feel less traditional....Leopard print heels and a red lipstick,
Black patent pumps and chunky silver jewellery...

But if you want to wear it then don't. If you are not concerned with looking traditionally bridal just choose a dress you feel amazing in!

The pink velvet is gorgeous.

I think it’s lovely

Have you come across this website https://fairygothmother.co.uk

with you posting something a bit alt, I thought you might like it

White dress is quite boring - looks droopy and somewhat unflattering on the model. Not mad about the lace trim on the pink dress but the Disturbia one looks great. Don’t be a lacklustre bride, find something different that you love!

I love queens of archive - you might like some of their stuff? Lots available to rent or buy second hand too on hurr and by rotation eg

you've obviously got great taste as all those dresses are lovely, I really like Disturbia, wish I was young enough to wear their stuff,might get one of their cardigans for the winter as I think I could get away with a cardi! . Enough about me, I think that whatever you pick is going to look great and you can play around with accessories and your bouquet to make your look extra special.

what about this? https://www.azazie.com/gb/products/ziva-vintage-teal-maxi-dress-atelier-dress/55471571?campaigncountry=GB&utm_term=1070935&utm_term=&country=GB&currency=GBP&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=22433307798&utm_content=&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22433308758&gbraid=0AAAAAobpxK9dQkbjozih-h3JWo_fxX6du&gclid=CjwKCAjwy5rUBhB5EiwAIoAtCsQnc9e7c3GvHaG5onQDKtYBcFYTA_-sfkEfIXBRRbFy8Iz8hhc3ixoCxNEQAvD_BwE&subsite=atelier

or this https://www.azazie.com/gb/products/karla-mauve-multi-maxi-dress-atelier-dress/17997957?campaigncountry=GB&utm_term=1068486&utm_term=&is_plus_size=1&country=GB&currency=GBP&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=22433307798&utm_content=&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22433308758&gbraid=0AAAAAobpxK9dQkbjozih-h3JWo_fxX6du&gclid=CjwKCAjwy5rUBhB5EiwAIoAtCh2H0w9CE2Wo1pQrbVs1yEy8TEqlmnIbd5U4Y5gCMVWRe2CTUp3G-BoCCm8QAvD_BwE&subsite=atelier

If you like the American Heiress dresses, you might like some of the velvet or satin dresses from Rixo?

https://rixolondon.com/products/maeva-dress-maroon?variant=55882032972162&tw_source=google&tw_adid=&tw_campaign=18829249622&tw_kwdid=&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=18826606723&gbraid=0AAAAADh6VNbBRF2jiTu4n1lvCJlHH9voL&gclid=CjwKCAjwy5rUBhB5EiwAIoAtCpqeOJgUVx8dkR1bhuyWlu5qPvWOW64C-h8sTJfLpYgaD5qE-Pm0NhoCugAQAvD_BwE

https://www.mytheresa.com/gb/en/women/rixo-emery-velvet-maxi-dress-blue-p00990353?dplink=true&utm_source=sea_pla&utm_medium=google&utm_campaign=google_sea&chn=sea_shopping&src=google&cmp=22286789689&tarea=gb&tar=&ag=&ptyp=&feed_num=P00990353-1&gclid=CjwKCAjwy5rUBhB5EiwAIoAtCuwgKXbtv__xNFt6IQR4RxovG3tKHMwSRCO9PF9jzYDihWt2rLQ07BoC4X0QAvD_BwE&gbraid=0AAAAAD3Pw-kZZ7oOsy-aduUrO0MU8yOL7&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22276402281&gbraid=0AAAAAD3Pw-kZZ7oOsy-aduUrO0MU8yOL7&slink_id=6a4f2cde-cae7-428a-845c-43ef870b7e6e&slink=1

https://rixolondon.com/products/clarice-dress-steel-blue

Unless you are in the US I would be very wary of buying from that site. Have you read the returns info?

https://www.americanheiress.com/pages/returns

Once your return is approved, we will provide you with the return address of the warehouse most convenient to you, in US or China, and you will be responsible for shipping the items back. We are not responsible for lost packages.

The disturbia dress is gorgeous. At my age I've learnt to wear what I love and suits me rather than what is expected at big occasions.

I love that second Hurr one. That would be me, although I think I've probably missed the wedding boat! I like the pink one too.

You’ve caused a problem - I love 90% of the dresses on this site 🤦‍♀️

I love both velvet dresses. Definitely wear a dress you love and that feels like "you" rather than the stereotype of what a bride should be! And have a wonderful day!

God I love this for a chic second wedding!! Could look amazing with a colourful bouquet!

Love love the pink velvet

I love the pink velvet too! It’s gorgeous!!

I thought of The Vampire's Wife dresses when I saw your choices - they are beautiful, very expensive when new (I think stopped trading now) but available to hire from many places.

Some other ideas:

https://www.broraonline.com/en-gb/products/silk-velvet-keyhole-dress-claret-dd8523km8529?gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=18898567667&gbraid=0AAAAAD-xHFOZ8uFDpfCVTo6A5UopeDm3D&gclid=CjwKCAjw7p_UBhBlEiwAhpIs72zUGDrUhjNj_RMqoj6yKuKRyxz16l8-oHVZ-vJQH2AdpjkEob8IfxoCxQwQAvD_BwE

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/victoria-dress-navy-swirl/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=%7Bcampaignname%7D_23036889720&utm_content=&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23047005496&gbraid=0AAAAADrNWmy4gSx_0MROHw4FNkFbajzp4&gclid=CjwKCAjw7p_UBhBlEiwAhpIs7-jmMIASBK_V39O64VaM_GtyYMbWxuBYKR53nv01Wo7_Rrm65W-cYBoC4sYQAvD_BwE

https://www.libertylondon.com/uk/peacock-manor-silk-satin-gala-maxi-dress-R549614006.html?utm_source=google&utm_medium=shoppingiq&utm_campaign=shoppingiqfeed&utm_content=shoppingseo&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22582528716&gbraid=0AAAAAD4IbFECyZI96EKDPbMReOVRLgTTL&gclid=CjwKCAjw7p_UBhBlEiwAhpIs775Q_lpEOj5TM26R0ztuB6uOxHXWiMLVxGYf2DDLHxXKfFJszhMVsBoC4i8QAvD_BwE

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/227406093975?var=0&mkevt=1&mkcid=1&mkrid=710-53481-19255-0&campid=5338268676&toolid=10044&ff=11&gbraid=0AAAAADA7Q_KifRbrLiHxx86JjaZklpbgq&loc_physical_ms=1006812&adtype=pla&customid=CjwKCAjw7p_UBhBlEiwAhpIs78bdMIsJpWlSyOXKN7H2R37lpqf0plX_uu6keCDrb-S25k5ZPydh6hoCjpEQAvD_BwE&gclid=CjwKCAjw7p_UBhBlEiwAhpIs78bdMIsJpWlSyOXKN7H2R37lpqf0plX_uu6keCDrb-S25k5ZPydh6hoCjpEQAvD_BwE

I think it’s a stunning dress. How about some very modern / bold flowers to accompany it?

I love this! Do it!