What to wear on a first date after years away from dating

[YourCosyPino]

First date in 6 years with Men, forgot about what was dating like, lol.

What would be good to wear for the first date?

Do you usually shave down there?

Where are you meeting? And are you planning to have sex?

Um whay now, that’s a bit of a leap, do whay you want with your pubes you don’t need to know what others do. Thays weird,

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We are going to play Padel first then, head into the restaurant for food.
Don't think Sex will happen on the first date but, leaving the option open.

And yet you wish to know of women shave their pubic areas?

Not necessarily tbh
I just wanted to hear how others are doing it..

Right.

Not necessarily tbh
I just wanted to hear how others are doing it.

Playing padel on a first date, especially before you eat, is totally crazy! Whose idea was that?!

Dont have sex on a first date. You wont see him again and he'll have zero respect for you.
I never go for a meal on the first date. It is horrible if you dislike him instantly and you have to sit there and eat a whole meal with someone you hate and have no intention of seeing again.
I either go for coffee or for a drink. I dont drink alcohol so less likely to do anything I'll regret.

Ah right, should have mentioned on my original post.
I actually had a drink together few days ago with him before this first date.
I play padel with him in the same club so, have known him for about 2-3 weeks now.

Yes, I agree about sex actually.

Sports clothes then surely?

If you’re playing padel then restaurant surely you’re changing? So something easy to take on and off. Shirt dress? Someone here posted a nice H&M red one the other day. What kind of restaurant?

So, I have a black dress which is now my 'first date dress'. It's black cotton, with a frill round the bottom- simple but I feel great in it. Then I can dress it up it down depending on the venue.

This is it:-

https://www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.1363263003.html

yes, will be taking the shower after padel, get changed, then, head for the restaurant.

On one of my summer dates at 40 I wore a sort of half off shoulder above knee dark blue/purple dress with black leather flip flop sandals. It was a last minute buy from Zara though. I changed into it in the shop and paid at the till with it on. I’d had an accident with what I’d planned to wear earlier.

Yeah for me after gym or sports I prefer an easy-ish dress to put on. You don’t need tights in this weather. I’d prefer not to drag a big gym bag with kit in it either.

I mean you could… wear a tennis dress or something but hopefully you won’t or don’t get sweaty. They used to be on trend fashion wise. Fred Perry and so on

https://www.adidas.co.uk/originals-dress/JY5320.html?cm_mmc=AdieSEM_PLA_Google--adiSEM_EU_UK_SEA_PMAX_NA_LMF_AlwaysOn_SA360_GEN_GEN_CrossCategory_NA_LowStock-NA-CPQV-English-NA-PSPMG_NA---_-&cm_mmca1=UK&cm_mmca2=&21132739608=&ds_agid=&af_reengagement_window=30d&is_retargeting=true&pid=googleadwords_temp&c=adiSEM_EU_UK_SEA_PMAX_NA_LMF_AlwaysOn_SA360_GEN_GEN_CrossCategory_NA_LowStock-NA-CPQV-English-NA-PSPMG_NA&af_channel=Shopping_Search&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21142995343&gbraid=0AAAAADwBzxoA4d1r8e8CYmra6YLwxSY9k&gclid=CjwKCAjwqJXUBhBNEiwA8BgG7jKgPAMseZsZ-H5ntEzyUpM1aA3m3hbi3DyrIMd0s2Oo4YEBPtbPzxoChFUQAvD_BwE

yep, I have got exact tennis dress :)
I am going to wear similar one actually.
Ofc, not going to mix the sweaty kit with dress in the bag.

Very odd post, or am I just old lol

WHY would you want to prepare yourself for sex on a FIRST DATE? Have some respect for yourself!

Shave your pubes into a heart or padel racquet?

I had sex with my DH on our first date 🤷‍♀️