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winter wedding guest dress

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WildflowerB · 09/11/2025 20:21

Im going to a wedding this December. I need a dress. Could be full length, could be more of a cocktail or party dress. I’m 5ft2, green eyes, brown hair, size 10 but big hips (!). I love chocolate brown & almost any green & orange. Any ideas?

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WildflowerB · 11/11/2025 07:52

Bigneonsign · 11/11/2025 00:53

What about this https://www.harveynichols.com/ganni/floral-print-jersey-maxi-dress-52529-bkot-black-235764/
Can be dressed up or down would get lots of wear

Or https://www.harveynichols.com/ganni/velvet-maxi-dress-21746-redd-red-236892/ can't remember if you said you liked or hated velvet now I'm posting

Ah thanks - these are pretty but look quite heavy with the long sleeves & maxi length & think at 5ft3 I would be swamped.

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WildflowerB · 11/11/2025 07:52

Another to try! Thank you

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WildflowerB · 11/11/2025 07:55

EleanorMc67 · 11/11/2025 02:54

Would you consider vintage? Some beautifully cut pieces out there - usually in much nicer fabrics than today's - & if accessorised with contemporary pieces they will look modern.

This is dramatic.

https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/4362484910/?ref=share_ios_native_control

Thanks for all your suggestions! I am putting the Liberty one on the list to try. Those vintage ones (the first in particular) are lovely but I never buy online before trying on because so many things don’t work if you’re pear shaped.

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Bigneonsign · 11/11/2025 10:01

WildflowerB · 11/11/2025 07:52

Ah thanks - these are pretty but look quite heavy with the long sleeves & maxi length & think at 5ft3 I would be swamped.

I was going for warm with sleeves! I have a velvet ganni dress and it's thin velvet not super heavy.
Could you get something taken up? Usually cheap enough at the dry cleaners

WildflowerB · 11/11/2025 12:50

Bigneonsign · 11/11/2025 10:05

Short one op. Would wear with fabulous tights https://www.ganni.com/en-gb/black-ruched-mini-dress-T4347.html
And yes I would wear black to a cool London wedding

I’d wear black too but it washes me out - I need warmer colours. Sadly because I love black dresses!

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EleanorMc67 · 11/11/2025 13:36

WildflowerB · 11/11/2025 07:55

Thanks for all your suggestions! I am putting the Liberty one on the list to try. Those vintage ones (the first in particular) are lovely but I never buy online before trying on because so many things don’t work if you’re pear shaped.

I hope one of them works for you! I've been eyeing several of the suggestions made to you - but as I have no invitations to a winter wedding or even a Christmas party (as I'm freelance), I cannot justify any of these!!! And I know what you mean about vintage. I have lots of gorgeous dresses from the 30s to 70s from when I was tall & slim & younger, when it was easy to find perfect fits. I should really sell them all now, as I'm older & more ... "statuesque", shall we say?!!!

WhatAKnob47 · 11/11/2025 15:04

WildflowerB · 10/11/2025 19:11

ah thanks but not sure this one’s for me - I need something a bit edgier & maybe less grand!

Sorry, I got a bit carried away.

JulieJo · 11/11/2025 21:00

I used to have this dress in the brown with orange flowers. It's a John Rocha silk mix. Really flattering shape. There are a few different colours available on Vinted and Ebay.
Awaiting approval of photos.

WildflowerB · 12/11/2025 15:05

oneoneone · 12/11/2025 10:31

Have you looked at Saloni @WildflowerB? They're in your price range and do some lovely things in your colours

https://saloniworld.com/collections/dresses?page=1

Just looking now! Thank you

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housethatbuiltme · 12/11/2025 15:51

WildflowerB · 09/11/2025 21:42

I’m not keen on velvet but what do you think of this?

https://shopannastore.com/products/rixo-amari-dress-in-bronze

Beautiful dress in photos but I recommend you try it on in person, I'm dress size 10 with big hips and this 'liquid satin' type material can be very unforgiving on me round the hips and lower stomach (clings to every tiny lump and bump like static wrap).

oneoneone · 12/11/2025 16:38

housethatbuiltme · 12/11/2025 15:51

Beautiful dress in photos but I recommend you try it on in person, I'm dress size 10 with big hips and this 'liquid satin' type material can be very unforgiving on me round the hips and lower stomach (clings to every tiny lump and bump like static wrap).

Sorry - have just had a quick look and realised their prices have gone up considerably since the last time I bought from them!

If you like any of their stuff, it can be worth taking a look on the outnet

Muldersmum · 12/11/2025 16:41

Hey ,there's a App called by rotation that have some stunning dresses to hire .hope u get sorted soon

oneoneone · 12/11/2025 16:58

oneoneone · 12/11/2025 16:38

Sorry - have just had a quick look and realised their prices have gone up considerably since the last time I bought from them!

If you like any of their stuff, it can be worth taking a look on the outnet

Edited

I was meaning Saloni - responded to the wrong post. Seem to be all thumbs today!

HolidayHappy123 · 15/11/2025 11:19

@WildflowerBmassive sale at Cefinn. 50% off the dresses you liked.

VenusClapTrap · 15/11/2025 14:16

Loving this thread, there are some gorgeous dresses. My favourites are the Me & Em chocolate velvet and the first Etsy one - green velvet with sheer sleeves.

I’m a complete sucker for green/blue velvet. I recently bought this, and it received lots of compliments. I’m the same height as you op and the length was great; not too short. I think the model in the photo must be about a foot taller than me!

https://www.theoutnet.com/en-gb/shop/product/loulou-studio/dresses/mini-dresses/crushed-velvet-mini-dress/1647597345512554

WildflowerB · 16/11/2025 14:49

HolidayHappy123 · 15/11/2025 11:19

@WildflowerBmassive sale at Cefinn. 50% off the dresses you liked.

Thank you!

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Bigneonsign · 18/11/2025 16:33

What about this op
I really like the way it's styled here.
I'd wear a Uniqlo heat tech body warmer underneath if they still sell them - kind of like a boob tube that goes from under boobs to your hips.
www.net-a-porter.com/en-gb/product/1647597315917341

WildflowerB · 18/11/2025 21:02

Bigneonsign · 18/11/2025 16:33

What about this op
I really like the way it's styled here.
I'd wear a Uniqlo heat tech body warmer underneath if they still sell them - kind of like a boob tube that goes from under boobs to your hips.
www.net-a-porter.com/en-gb/product/1647597315917341

Wow that is a surprising dress. I think I would freeze & also can’t wear black but thank you.

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WildflowerB · 18/11/2025 21:06

Thank you to everyone who suggested Cefinn. They seemed so perfect but I tried them & they looked too Sam Cam!
Now to try some of the other suggestions here.

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fruitypancake · 18/11/2025 21:55

WildflowerB · 10/11/2025 09:42

Now worried I need something structured!
over budget but what do you all think of this?
https://www.theoutnet.com/en-gb/shop/product/roksanda/dresses/midi-dresses/alma-knotted-cutout-crepe-midi-dress/46376663162937660

Lovely !

EleanorMc67 · 19/11/2025 00:48

WildflowerB · 18/11/2025 21:06

Thank you to everyone who suggested Cefinn. They seemed so perfect but I tried them & they looked too Sam Cam!
Now to try some of the other suggestions here.

That would never do!!!

Not sure what this is like in the flesh - if it's a heavy quite matte satin it could be great, & the colour is fab?

https://www.whistles.com/product/avery-satin-twist-dress-40052.html

Green Avery Satin Twist Dress | WHISTLES | Whistles UK |

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