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winter wedding guest dress

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WildflowerB · 09/11/2025 20:21

Im going to a wedding this December. I need a dress. Could be full length, could be more of a cocktail or party dress. I’m 5ft2, green eyes, brown hair, size 10 but big hips (!). I love chocolate brown & almost any green & orange. Any ideas?

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WildflowerB · 10/11/2025 12:49

MattCauthon · 10/11/2025 12:06

The Monsoon one looks like a bridesmaid's dress. The green silk is creased in the pictures! I thin it would be hard to carry off as a wedding guest. Not sure what's wrong with Phase 8 but I liked that first dress - I just wouldn't wear it to a wedding personally.

You said you like orange but not sure if this feels summery: https://www.theoutnet.com/en-gb/shop/product/stella-mccartney/dresses/midi-dresses/stretch-knit-midi-dress/1647597340390272

Is this too short:

https://www.theoutnet.com/en-gb/shop/product/alice-plus-olivia/dresses/mini-dresses/opal-pussy-bow-paisley-print-chiffon-mini-dress/46376663162925992

I like this too but very red... my mother wouldn't approve at a wedding!

https://www.theoutnet.com/en-gb/shop/product/alice-plus-olivia/dresses/maxi-dresses/vernia-pleated-voile-maxi-dress/46376663162885962

Too busy?

https://www.theoutnet.com/en-gb/shop/product/camilla/dresses/maxi-dresses/belted-embellished-printed-silk-crepe-de-chine-midi-dress/46376663162840623

I like the red one! (I think it would be OK at this particular wedding).
The orange feels v summery & yes sadly that other one does feel too short for me.

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WildflowerB · 10/11/2025 12:50

Drivingmissrangey · 10/11/2025 11:51

https://www.meandem.com/fluid-velour-draped-dress-warm-chocolate

If velvet might be an option for you. I think this is lovely (I couldn’t carry off the colour though).

That might be worth trying on! I wasn’t keen on velvet but this one is very pretty

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MattCauthon · 10/11/2025 12:54

I hadn't come across Alilce + Olivia before. On WLI now. If I lose the weight, I think i might treat myself as a reward. there were about 10 dresses and half a dozen jumpers/tops I'd like to buy from there! I'll have top pick ONE.

I love the red too. I couldn't wear that colour as it wouldn't suit me, but if it works for you - go for it!

WildflowerB · 10/11/2025 13:12

MattCauthon · 10/11/2025 12:54

I hadn't come across Alilce + Olivia before. On WLI now. If I lose the weight, I think i might treat myself as a reward. there were about 10 dresses and half a dozen jumpers/tops I'd like to buy from there! I'll have top pick ONE.

I love the red too. I couldn't wear that colour as it wouldn't suit me, but if it works for you - go for it!

Just realised it’s also polyester though. I might still try it but I was hoping for something not polyester. It’s a great brand though - I’d forgotten them so thanks for reminding me

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WildflowerB · 10/11/2025 13:13

Thanks but this feels way too traditional and prom dress.

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mamagogo1 · 10/11/2025 13:17

Sorry @WildflowerB. That first one gives me nightdress vibes.

im really not into those colours, especially for a wedding

Goditsmemargaret · 10/11/2025 17:25

EscapadeVelocity · 09/11/2025 21:41

Oh God - I hate myself. I just saw a brown velvet Next dress and thought ‘That’s not bad.’ I feel myself sliding into a pit of wardrobe awfulness. This was the thing:

Brown dress

Even worse, its Phase Eight.

Please feel free to burn this post.

Ah now come on. There's no excuse for that.

WildflowerB · 10/11/2025 19:10

mamagogo1 · 10/11/2025 13:17

Sorry @WildflowerB. That first one gives me nightdress vibes.

im really not into those colours, especially for a wedding

I can’t wear a lot of other colours! You don’t have to wear them

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WildflowerB · 10/11/2025 19:11

WhatAKnob47 · 10/11/2025 15:19

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/bridie-maxi-dress-10002970450.html

This will look great with your eyes and complexion

ah thanks but not sure this one’s for me - I need something a bit edgier & maybe less grand!

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twinmum2007 · 10/11/2025 19:17

I'm going to a wedding in Ireland in 3 weeks, and I've bought this. It's awesome on.

winter wedding guest dress
EleanorMc67 · 10/11/2025 19:52

EscapadeVelocity · 09/11/2025 21:41

Oh God - I hate myself. I just saw a brown velvet Next dress and thought ‘That’s not bad.’ I feel myself sliding into a pit of wardrobe awfulness. This was the thing:

Brown dress

Even worse, its Phase Eight.

Please feel free to burn this post.

This made me laugh!

There is currently an ongoing discussion elsewhere on Mumsnet about dress recommendations & what constitutes "frumpy" ... & Phase Eight immediately came to mind! I say that as someone who, at 58, is probably older than their target audience too ...

That is, admittedly, passable - but the Me + Em one in chocolate velvet is a much nicer upgrade.

EleanorMc67 · 10/11/2025 21:15

HolidayHappy123 · 10/11/2025 20:59

This one is giving Vampire's Wife vibes if you hate the velvet:

Irina Metallic Shirred Detail Bias Cut Maxi Dress - Dark Green

Like a Quality Street wrapper - in a good way!!

WildflowerB · 10/11/2025 21:20

EleanorMc67 · 10/11/2025 21:15

Like a Quality Street wrapper - in a good way!!

Ive always thought velvet was very old hat but apparently it is having a moment & that dress is lovely
https://www.vogue.com/slideshow/best-velvet-dresses

38 Very Luxe and Lustrous Velvet Dresses to Wear This Winter

Is there anything more festive?

https://www.vogue.com/slideshow/best-velvet-dresses

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WildflowerB · 10/11/2025 21:21

HolidayHappy123 · 10/11/2025 20:59

This one is giving Vampire's Wife vibes if you hate the velvet:

Irina Metallic Shirred Detail Bias Cut Maxi Dress - Dark Green

ooh definitely going to try that one. I worry I am not skinny enough for Cefinn but this is beautiful

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Hels20 · 10/11/2025 21:39

What about this VB dress? Think the Net a Porter sale might be coming soon which would bring dress into your price range

winter wedding guest dress
Birdsongsinging · 10/11/2025 22:07

WildflowerB · 09/11/2025 20:22

Budget up to £500. I should have said

I love this one although it will show any lumps and bumps if you have them!

Birdsongsinging · 10/11/2025 22:08

I like this one as well but it's quite plain - depends what it looks like on.