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Bikini waxing - out of touch

75 replies

Bayou2000 · 10/08/2025 17:50

I haven’t had a bikini wax since I gave birth to my eldest daughter (now 15). I can’t remember what I had done.
I pretty much want everything off apart from a landing strip/small triangle- what do I even ask
for? Sorry, silly question I know.
Does a full bikini wax tend to include underneath too? Again- sorry!!

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AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 10/08/2025 17:52

It’s a Brazilian. Everything off but a triangle/landing strip.

Lottapianos · 10/08/2025 17:52

You're looking for a Brazilian and yes, they do your undercarriage too 😊

Panicatthegarden · 10/08/2025 17:54

You're after a Brazilian. It should include underneath and your bum hole too

StarlightLady · 10/08/2025 18:16

A Hollywood, which is everything off is far less maintenance than messing about with topiary!

But when you go, apart from just using names, spell out exactly what you want in a sentence or 2. As this is the first time in for ages, l suggest a couple of paracetamol first (I don’t bother, but my body is used to it) and avoid being done just before your period and don’t have sex with someone the same day.

Bayou2000 · 10/08/2025 18:53

I would go Hollywood… but kind of easing myself back in. 😆
Is a small triangle considered old fashioned?
Thank you all.

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StarlightLady · 10/08/2025 20:13

Bayou2000 · 10/08/2025 18:53

I would go Hollywood… but kind of easing myself back in. 😆
Is a small triangle considered old fashioned?
Thank you all.

It’s not about being considered anything. Go for what you want. It’s just maintaining a small triangle tidily is more hard work.

The only thing l would add is, if you find a good beautician stick with her.

Muchtoomuchtodo · 10/08/2025 20:15

Just ask for exactly what you want.

I have a bikini wax once in a blue moon, when I have a hot holiday booked. I only ever want enough taken off that I can wear my bikini without any fly away hairs! They always seem a bit surprised but do as I ask.

LordEmsworth · 10/08/2025 20:38

Bayou2000 · 10/08/2025 18:53

I would go Hollywood… but kind of easing myself back in. 😆
Is a small triangle considered old fashioned?
Thank you all.

Considered old fashioned by whom? I think the King probably thinks it's pretty newfangled, whereas I think it's fine to have your pubes however you want them. I mean, if you get it out in Sainsburys, you'll probably get barred, but that's not driven by fashionistas.

Agree with PP - describe to them exactly what you want, eliminate the risk of confusion. And it'll grow back - it's not forever, you can always go for something different next time...

Wishiwasatailor · 10/08/2025 20:45

If you can go to an intimate wax specialist rather than a generic beauty salon they tend to be superior as it's what they do all day long. My lady does it in 15mins super fast, efficient and good chat she's an expert at making you feel comfortable. If there's not one in your area make sure who you go to use hot wax fix it's a Brazilian rather than strip wax it's a lot less painful and much more gentle to the skin

Ilovemyshed · 10/08/2025 20:47

Find somewhere that does Lycon Hot Wax, whatever you have done!

Shoes232 · 10/08/2025 20:47

Go somewhere that uses lycon wax and are bikini wax specialists, it makes so much difference. I basically had a full body wax yesterday in 25 minutes almost pain free

JimmyGiraffe · 10/08/2025 20:50

I’ve always gone for a very minimal landing strip plus tiny triangle (and if I say Brazilian there’s never been any confusion). At a recent appointment I asked the beauty therapist what’s currently in fashion ‘down there’ and apparently anything goes these days!

pinkfondu · 10/08/2025 20:54

Another vote for hot wax

Bayou2000 · 10/08/2025 21:12

I am actually having this done in Spain, although returning to the UK soon. I am particularly anxious about things getting lost in translation although I would rather more rather than less was taken.

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Wishiwasatailor · 10/08/2025 21:21

ive Been to several in Spain but several years ago and they always used hot wax rather than strip. If you are in a big city there will be an intimate waxing salon

StarlightLady · 10/08/2025 21:24

LordEmsworth · 10/08/2025 20:38

Considered old fashioned by whom? I think the King probably thinks it's pretty newfangled, whereas I think it's fine to have your pubes however you want them. I mean, if you get it out in Sainsburys, you'll probably get barred, but that's not driven by fashionistas.

Agree with PP - describe to them exactly what you want, eliminate the risk of confusion. And it'll grow back - it's not forever, you can always go for something different next time...

That’s why l shop in Waitrose 🤣.

bigbreakfastclub · 10/08/2025 22:29

Am I lucky that I don’t have much pubic hair and can easily deal with it myself

jamnpancakes · 11/08/2025 01:03

Bayou2000 · 10/08/2025 18:53

I would go Hollywood… but kind of easing myself back in. 😆
Is a small triangle considered old fashioned?
Thank you all.

I don't think I've seen any fashion articles on this recently 😂

jamnpancakes · 11/08/2025 01:05

Bayou2000 · 10/08/2025 21:12

I am actually having this done in Spain, although returning to the UK soon. I am particularly anxious about things getting lost in translation although I would rather more rather than less was taken.

google for the charts they often use

Bikini waxing - out of touch
whatacroc · 11/08/2025 01:11

Never had a wax myself as ive always just shaved but I'd mostly likely go for the Brazilian landing strip too op. i hate being completely bald down there. whatever you're most comfortable with.

YourQuirkyOpalLurker · 11/08/2025 19:51

I hate to be that person but I’m going to piggyback on your thread to save me making my own. What do I ask for if I want my bum waxed? Normally I shave my fanjo every few days but I’ve never been brave enough to go near my bum with a razor. The other day I noticed it’s definitely been neglected (i have pcos so I get hairy everywhere). So I thought I may as well not shave this week and go and get everything waxed

KitsyWitsy · 11/08/2025 19:53

I get a Hollywood.

YourQuirkyOpalLurker · 11/08/2025 20:17

jamnpancakes · 11/08/2025 01:05

google for the charts they often use

Are people really getting that last one lol

YourQuirkyOpalLurker · 11/08/2025 20:33

bigbreakfastclub · 10/08/2025 22:29

Am I lucky that I don’t have much pubic hair and can easily deal with it myself

As someone with pcos who has to shave every few days or I have hagrids beard down there, yes yes you are

NotEnoughRoom · 11/08/2025 20:37

I am a hairy beast, so I just ask them to remove everything below the belly button!