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Am I too old for this dress?

93 replies

Retiredandreadytotravel · 02/07/2025 03:58

Do you think I can get away with this dress for Europe this summer ? I am almost 59. Size 10 (hope it fits haven't received it yet). I’m now thinking the print is quite young ? Thanks for your input

Am I too old for this dress?
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Sunshineismyfavourite · 02/07/2025 09:36

It is gorgeous and you can absolutely wear it!

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 02/07/2025 09:48

Notaripoff · 02/07/2025 08:14

It's a lovely dress OP and you are not too old at all.

Ugh to those posters that just can't help themselves with "is it an Amazon rip off" and "bit try hard".

The Alémais dress is beautiful. The Amazon retailer ripping off Alémais' designs is disgusting behaviour and illegal.

ThatCyanCat · 02/07/2025 10:25

Not at all, it's beautiful.

Retiredandreadytotravel · 02/07/2025 10:26

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 02/07/2025 05:57

Of course you're not too young.

Is it Alémais?

https://www.endource.com/product/alemais-sunset-printed-linen-midi-dress/ZfKyDNjkHAABjFsB

Or the Amazon rip off?

1amzn.eu/d/aEoMaVJ

Alémais seem particularly susceptible to that.

Yes it is the real thing, I didn’t realise how many Amazon dupes there are though ! I’m sure they don’t use the quality fabrics of Alemais…

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Retiredandreadytotravel · 02/07/2025 10:28

Retiredandreadytotravel · 02/07/2025 10:26

Yes it is the real thing, I didn’t realise how many Amazon dupes there are though ! I’m sure they don’t use the quality fabrics of Alemais…

Wow I just clicked on your Amazon link. They don’t even try to be different. That is really dreadful….

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Retiredandreadytotravel · 02/07/2025 10:31

landlordhell · 02/07/2025 07:43

I don’t know what you mean. Was expecting a mini dress. It’s lovely .
OP try watching Friday Night Fashion on YouTube with Amanda Wakely (60) and Jo Elvin(50s) or Middle Aged Minx with Jo Good( 70) for some style inspo.

Edited

Thank you I’ll have a look 🙌

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Retiredandreadytotravel · 02/07/2025 10:34

Barney16 · 02/07/2025 08:52

If it's Alemais I'm very, very jealous. If it isn't can you post a link?

It’s Alemais x

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Retiredandreadytotravel · 02/07/2025 10:36

Thanks everyone such lovely comments what a gorgeous community 😍

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Thebelleofstmarys · 02/07/2025 10:40

What a fabulous investment piece! You'll have years of pleasure wearing that and looking beautiful .
And thanks for sharing the brand . Hadn't heard of them before and now love their clothes .

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 02/07/2025 10:54

Retiredandreadytotravel · 02/07/2025 10:26

Yes it is the real thing, I didn’t realise how many Amazon dupes there are though ! I’m sure they don’t use the quality fabrics of Alemais…

The Amazon ones will look nothing like the real ones. Alémais, despite the complex designs seem particularly susceptible to being ripped off. I know that they try to get them removed. I've sent them links a couple of times.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 02/07/2025 10:58

I would say it's a dress for an older lady! You might be too young for it...

Wadadli · 02/07/2025 11:33

Retiredandreadytotravel · 02/07/2025 03:58

Do you think I can get away with this dress for Europe this summer ? I am almost 59. Size 10 (hope it fits haven't received it yet). I’m now thinking the print is quite young ? Thanks for your input

Wear what the hell you like! I have never given a shiny shit about others’ views on my attire

DurhamDurham · 02/07/2025 11:43

I think it’s lovely, I’m 54 and would definitely wear it.

lifeonmars100 · 02/07/2025 12:26

Lovely dress, enjoy wearing it

PepsiForEva · 02/07/2025 12:57

I love it!

For me it gives me a mental image of the chic beauties Isabelle Huppert or Lena Olin- both much older than you!

Sana145 · 02/07/2025 13:39

Honestly? You can absolutely wear this dress. It’s playful, yes, but not childish—it has that elegant, vintage postcard feel that would look gorgeous strolling through a European town. The shape is flattering and classic, and the soft pink and cream tones give it a grown-up charm.

You're nearly 59, not invisible. If you like it, and it makes you feel good, that’s really all that matters. Style doesn’t come with an age limit—and frankly, that dress with a good pair of sandals, sunglasses, and confidence? Chef’s kiss. Hope it fits perfectly
!

Bestevercatmum · 02/07/2025 13:40

I’m 65 and I’d wear it!

Ruthietuthie · 02/07/2025 13:44

It's lovely. Just FYI, the 10 in the label is SIZE not AGE. Hope that helps 😉

FatLarrysBanned · 02/07/2025 13:53

Love it. Would make me smile every time I saw it in my wardrobe and I'd be giddy as a kipper wearing it.

Lifelover16 · 02/07/2025 13:55

It’s a beautiful summer dress and you are certainly not too old. Enjoy wearing it!

Purplecatshopaholic · 02/07/2025 13:56

It’s lovely. Wear and enjoy! (And for the record why on earth would you be too old? Wear with attitude and a great lippie!)

CanOfMangoTango · 02/07/2025 13:56

I love Alemais clothes in the summer. That dress is beautiful.

I have a linen shirt, it's a bit loud, but it's one of my most favourite items of clothing.

I've seen lots of amazon rip offs and also influencers including them in their "hauls". Gross.

Goingawayistricky · 02/07/2025 17:50

thedevilinablackdress · 02/07/2025 07:42

I think I may hate the phrase "a bit try hard" even more than "mutton dressed as lamb".
Don't be wearing anything too fancy and drawing attention to yourself. Who do you think you are anyway...
This may be over-interpreting the phrase and be rooted in my own issues.
Anyway, lovely dress. I hope it fits and you enjoy it.

I meant the dress is try hard not the Op.

I am nearly 55 and wear Get Cutie so no stranger to dresses with prints and pictures.

Retiredandreadytotravel · 03/07/2025 23:27

Thanks everyone. I really appreciate your kind comments. The dress has arrived, fits like a glove and looks good. Could possibly have gone up a size and TBH needs to be lined (what is it with expensive brands and linen, and no lining ?) but otherwise will be gorgeous for the summer

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Energywise · 03/07/2025 23:36

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 02/07/2025 10:58

I would say it's a dress for an older lady! You might be too young for it...

Not just me! I thought it very old fashioned and frumpy. The top part makes it look like a night dress!