I returned a few things today that I'd been dithering about, as this was my final day for returns on them. I think my issue is that when I was very fat, on the rare occasions that I found something I liked, I'd buy it in every colour, or if it was black, I'd buy 4 of them in case I never found anything like it again. I'm trying to trust now that that isn't necessary - that there will always be something that I like, that fits well, etc, so I don't need to have anything I don't love in my cupboard, and I don't need multiple backups of a black 'something.