Hi all, have not read the full thread, but this appears to be the place for general fashion/style chat. If I am in the wrong place please tell me. Usually post in AIBU-
I need some perhaps unsual help, and I know among the vast multitude of MNers someone will be able to point me in the right direction.
I am a 70 year old Lesbian and am getting married to my partner of over twenty years. I am quite fat, and for genuine medical reasons it's hard to lose weight. But I am trying my damndest, and hope to be a size 16/18 for the wedding. I am 5foot 6in, so average height.
I am what is called 'soft butch', and am found 100 per cent of time in some version of casual trousers and top. But I don't dress or try to look like a man, I look like pretty much any woman in casual wear these days, the problem is formal wear.
So I don't want a wedding dress, and I don't want anything remotely like a man's suit.
Am thinking of something like a long top/tunic over loose trousers. Would like them to look 'special', but without frills and flounces. Will pay for good quality, and can shop online from anywhere.
If I Google 'Lesbian wedding' I get a load of mainly US sites, where most of the couples go for the full wedding dress/tuxedo or best suit look....ughh!
I'd love to hear your ideas. I know nothing about fashion, or which shops or designers might work for me.