Help - Wedding outfit recommendations needed !

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OK - need your help ladies !

Wedding is on 23rd Dec - in a cold and hilly place !

Me is size 16/18 - not massive chest but broad back, wobbly tummy, and generally rather soft and rounded !
Hair is dark blonde with highlights in a short bob !

Would like something smart and stylish that makes me look slimmer than I am. Although at 39 am wary of looking like mutton !

Hat not strictly necessary - although I do like hats - few others have got fascinators, but I'm not sure about those !

Ideally something that I could wear again ?

Help please !

Can you take the Kew dress with you when you go shopping, so you can try them on together and make sure they work together. It's quite long, so I suspect it's going to be either a jacket, maybe fitted, or a full-length coat. Try monsoon and see if they have anything. East might have stuff too, but you can't link to anything on their website. Poor thing - it's stressful, isn't it.