ilovetosleep I think your face looks good to me! (disclaimer: this comes from someone who doesn't know anything about skincare, but then that's the same as 99% of people who will be looking at your face!!)
After much dithering (and thank you for your advice earlier in the thread!!) I finally bought some new products, clearing out my Advantage Points. I bought the LRP Toleriane cleanser, Effaclar Duo, Avene Antirougeur moisturiser (3 for 2, yay!) and the Nip/Fab pads. Feel reassured by the link you posted, Nabootique, that I can at least have a go with the Nip/Fab pads - I need a 'starter' product!
I have been using skincare products I have at home, it turns out I had more than I thought I had! Started little by little, as suggested. I've been using a Decleor cleanser (it foams a bit so is prob. 'bad' but feels quite gentle), the last of the Antirougeur I already had. So far so good. My face feels nice and not tight or sore, so I guess that's a good start.
Plus after telling my husband that I was going to start "doing skincare" he produced a bottle of Dr Hauschka Clarifying Toner that he got as part of a skincare box so used that today too. He has been using products for years and to be fair everyone thinks he's about 8-10 years younger than he is, I don't know why I didn't make the correlation before now....!!