weird body shape

[stitch]

i have a huge tummy. it sticks out further than my breasts do. finding clothes to fit is a nightmare. i got this coat from boden which i was really pleased with, but it was a tiny bit tight accross tummy. ds says it is too big on me. shoulders and bust. she thinks i should have bought a 14. but the sixteen barely covers my lump of fat......
i have this problem with most clothes. what do you think about looking int he maternity section? or is that just too sad?

ds there meaning darling sister

if the clothes fit, stuff where they came from I think you would look good in empire line clothes as I do -- one of my favourite dresses was from formes and I loved wearing it after I had DD...

ive heard of formes on another thread. what is it? can you do a link please?

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weight watchers stitchy

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god NO! youcannot wear maternity if you ar neot pregnant
you need to lose weight

meggy, lots of lycra stuff tends to cling to all the horrible wobbly bits. expecially the two folds of skin along the side of my belly where there isnt enough fat to fill out the skin. icht description, or what.

cod, cant do the weight loss thing. everytime i get going, dh does something to make me feel so miserable, that i think sod it, and start eatig stuff because one, i enjoy food. and two, it pisses him off. have started the gym thing, im hoping it will show some results in a couple of weeks.

how cna you balme HIM for YOUR eating
coem on youa re an adult

so what do i do about this awful belly?

stop eating
all you do is majke yourself unhappy
never mind your dh

no, i dont blame him. i know i am the one to blame. that is just my way of handling the stress i get off him. sometimes i do so by using his cards online, sometimes i eat. i dont have the willpower to lose the weight.

ive joined a gym, where they have a free creche. im going to give it two weeks, hopefully will be able to see some improvement by then.

so i shouldnt get maternity then.

no coem on we'll help you!

i need all the help i can get
but how will you help me?

we will nag you adn devise a cunnign practiacal yet tasty diet
( i need to lsoe meself)

i have taken the bait.
what is this cunnng practical and tasty diet?

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ok what do you normally eat
what do you wigh and how tall are oyu
dish it

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( may pop off to watch the blunkett thing but will cheeck back)

or go to ww
its a good diet
lost 21 lbs in three months once - didnt really put it back on eiether ( well a bit but it was 10 plus years ago)

lol meggy.
okie i like this helping idea. cod, how about you yell at me if i dont go to the gym at least three times a week? and no more chocolate croissants? and i aim to be a sixe 12 by the christmas meetup. and if i am not, then you yell at me somemore, and devise a really nasty pounishment?

my nasty punishemnt is... enid