GGGGrrrrrrrr! Feel like the wicked step-mum again!!!!!

[Squirrel3]

We had the step-kids last night and I realised just how much dsd would love to see me and dp split up.

During this week I had been sorting out wardrobes etc, and I had thrown out loads of old clothes that we don't wear anymore. Dsd saw all of the dustbin bags full of old clothes and asked what was going on. Dp has a weird sense of humour and he told her that I had packed up all of his clothes and I was throwing him out!!

Dsd could hardly contain her excitement at the prospect and was so pleased I thought she was going to burst!!!!

I am so hurt, I have tried so hard with her. I must admit I have found it very hard to develop a relationship with her so I have worked extra hard with her and I thought that we were good friends at least now.

Hello Surfermum, how are you?

I think that she is saying it to get attention from both mummy and daddy. If dsd said it I don't blame her mum for being angry about it, in her position I think I would be concerned too.

Dsd is very attention seeking and she may have just found a way to get attention all round.

And if people have to be told you're not her mum, then you're doing OK. I love it when people are surprised I'm not dsd's BM because to me that says that I'm acting the same with dd as with dsd, which is what I aim to do. Some people we met on holiday once told me too that dsd clearly thinks a lot of me and they wouldn't have known I wasn't her mum. It was just so good to hear, because I thought I'd been nagging her all week and doting on dd, and that I might as well park my broomstick by our table as it was so obvious that I was a wicked SM.

Hey, Squirrel I'm fine thanks! Monster hangover thanks to Bunny, Sparkler, Delgirl and Merlin who poured wine down my neck all last night.

So, if she's doing it to get attention, it's about that, it isn't about you hun. Don't tie yourself up in knots over it, it sounds to me like you're doing a fab job. I bet when she's older she'll really appreciate you, but don't expect it now.

Thank you Surfermum, I hope you are right.

and, of course, I hope the hangover goes soon.

but,.......its not fair, I want wine too!!!!

yeah me too pass the wine this way. Cant believe its got to this time on a Friday and we havnet brought alcohol into the conversation Were slacking here people. Hello Surfermum Hows life?

Agree with Surfermum - I'm sure when she's older she'll realise how hard you tried for her and she'll really appreciate you and everything you did/still do for her

Off to a meetig now Ill have a large white wine when I get back please

Here you are Tarantula,

good meeting?

Oh, bugger!!!!!

Here even .

thrilling Squirrel havnet been so rivetted in years..............NOT

mmmmmmmmm thats better

Its ok, I'm trying to get you p-ed!!!

When I tried the first link it didn't work so I put another one on.

I drank the rest though

Come to think of it I think we should all get drunk!

Sounds good - only got till half past tho, I finish early on Fridays

DP is on nights tonight - not good

Might have to get p-ed on my own

Well it is Friday afternoon I mean who in their right mind does any work on a Friday afternoon anyway?

Dp is staying at his mothers (the dragon) tonight so I might just get p-ed and do a search on the net for a new lover

I don't do very much most afternoons - not just Friday

Squirrel I hope you're feeling better soon

I'll be thinking about you, do come and see us when you can

Talk to you later.

Play nicely girls

Message withdrawn

totally agree cod.

Finally I manage to get back in here. Htey cant let the internet play up on Fridays Its not fair. Looks good to me Squirrel but then after the wine Ive knocked back anything looks good.

its ok we all know you fancy the one on the right

What a hunk of man lol!!!!!!

Dp has just collected his stuff for the weekend and gone, why do I feel so shitty?

Sorry, I'll have a few more glasses of wine, that will cheer me up!

I prob won't get to speak to you lot for a while so "au revoir"

For now!!!!!!!!!!