Why is she blocked when she needs help???

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Please??????????

Well, hopefully that's good news then. Thank you Helen.

Thankyou Helen. Perhaps she asked for her account to be vblocked so he cannot access it?

very unsatisfactory response I am afraid. People have been sittign on here and trying to help for days and then just to hear that.

and as for reporting the thread...words totally fail me they really do.

the threads been pulled?

ignore me i thouggt it had

woah woah woah - MrsSnape - isn't she the one I accused of being a troll AGES back, and was jumped on (and then I aplogised for accusing her of such a thing).

Did kararte or kick boxing or something such like never had any money but was going on an expensive holiday or something such like.........or am I thinking of someone else?

And is so was she eventually confirmed to be a troll - what's this boxroom troll business??

stressed2007. not sure how long you've been on MN but there have been some trolling threads re DV ... one abour 3 years ago where a woman was trying to escape abuse overseas, people were trying to get her a visa, sneding clothes etc.. turns out she was lying

i don't think that reporting threads such as those is wrong.

CvQ , ethanchristopher, mummytoleon, babyjjbaby, dizzymare et all all lied about awful stuff such as prem birth , rape, abuse, and other things

people do lie even about terrible things, save your rage for the liars not the people who report such concerns

Thankyou Helen

Hello.

I think someone may have called me a "namechanger" as the other main poster on the thread in question. Can I just say absolutely and categorically that I'm not. I have been on MN since last May (or was it June?) when I found out I was expecting my 3rd DC. For the majority of that time I have been CTOFN, the initial period I was actually going by my real name because I didn't understand the whole MN nickname thing .

So - that point aside, of course people have the right to report a thread for whatever reason. And the poster was blocked last night when she tried to log on. I think she is now "unblocked" but she has chosen not to come back and post just yet.

I've asked MN to explain to me why they blocked in the first place because of my contact with the poster and if there are safety or security reasons, I need to know about it. I think that's only right and proper.

I'm waiting for the response...

Exactly CANT - I think UA would probably like to know too for obvious reasons!

As MNHQ are now clear that they believe Dismantlethesun and are sure she is safe, I think the rest of us should respect what she needs and wants and leave it. She knows where we are if she needs anything - and if she is reading this, I mean anything. Including some time away from MN to put things in order and start the difficult, but I am quite certain ultimately hugely rewarding, work of rebuilding her life.

If there are concerns that Can't needs to know about, I'm sure MNHQ will contact her directly. I for one will now bow out until Dismantle returns and re-engages with us.

Good luck and godspeed Dismantle.

Chateau..

Discretion

sorry- she is named upthread.

eh?? new developments?

confused...

Eleanor outed her earlier in the thread.

Perhaps that post ought to be deleted although I think many people were aware of who she was.

boxroom name came about because her dp insisted her 2 boys shared the boxroon whilst his dd had the bigger room...thats all,usually some reference to the dd in her posts and the unhealthy relationship he had with her

mrssnape was outrageous, wasn't she?

You should read the latest thread, Chateau. It is very sad, but also quite uplifting, because she is starting to sort things out. It wasn't trolling so much as compulsively posting multiple versions of the same problem in the hope of getting different advice, I think.

her threads as mrsS were always so de trop though. The christmas present one, and the kick boxing troubles.

FWIW I really like d- she is clever and witty and funny whenever I have seen her.