Hello.
We have been in contact with dismantlethesun and she's taking an MN break.
She's told us she is OK and getting some good RL support, as so many of you so brilliantly and so sensitively advised her to do.
She wanted you all to know how much your advice helped her make decisions that she's sure will change her life for the better.
She is free to come back to MN when she's ready.