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nickname changes : thoughts?

276 replies

JJmumsnet · 06/06/2005 18:09

Hi All,

We've been discussing the name changing thing internally recently as it happens, both because of the ability to use it to cause trouble and just as importantly because of the possibility that any new poster may be a name changer or the same person posting under multiple names, which inevitably leads to an atmosphere of suspicion.

As Marina has elsewhere rightly pointed out, the number of users, threads and name changes makes it hard to keep up with who's just having fun (by far the majority) and who's trying to cause trouble.

We've raised before the notion of restricting names to two per registration, with the idea that you have one name for everyday use and a further one for sensitive stuff. We believe this is the way to go now.

Of course it won't stop the ability to troll if you are determined, but it will make it more difficult to cause trouble and to confuse. We know some people enjoy having some perfectly innocent fun with name changing and we're sorry to be party poopers in that respect but on balance we think limiting name changes is the sensible thing to do. Were anyone to desperately want/need another name for a pressing reason, we'd happily facilitate on an ad hoc basis and I'm sure Tech could do a special Christmas namechange facility too.

As mumsnet grows (as we hope it might ) it's going to become even more of an issue to keep track of things, so we hope you agree the limit is the right way to go. Tech's away this week (again you cry!) but we'll get onto it soon. Naturally if you have objections/ reasons why you think this is a bad idea - do post them here or write to us directly and we'll give it further thought.

Thanks,
Team mumsnet

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giraffeski · 06/06/2005 21:37

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cod · 06/06/2005 21:38

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tickbox · 06/06/2005 21:39

I've just realised that this is a PC I've only had for a couple of months so it won't count name changes from my old PC or other PCs either!

Addicted? Moi?

(Tis hunkermunker - accept no imitations )

GeraldGiraffe · 06/06/2005 21:40

And 'twould be a shame to lose this dapper gentleman...

WigWamBam · 06/06/2005 21:41

Oh, Gerald, don't be daft ...

huggybear · 06/06/2005 21:41

I still like the name and shame idea although it isnt workable. wishful thinking......

WlgWamBam · 06/06/2005 21:43

Or, indeed, this beauty!

WlgWamBam · 06/06/2005 21:43

he he he

Aero · 06/06/2005 21:43

Still don't think just two is enough......maybe 3 or 4 (for the reasons I already posted)with a special extra one for Xmas - think two is too limiting tbh. But do agree in principal that people posting nasty, hurtful and possibly damaging comments needs to be addressed.

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Aero · 06/06/2005 21:59

I'd be happy to tick a box WWB

Bijrafe · 06/06/2005 22:06

i wasn't really wwb you know, look carefully

MarsLady · 06/06/2005 22:08

hmmmmmmmmmmmm I don't feel my song is getting enough attention.... so (boasting moment...... ahem.........)

To all the names I've loved before
Who travelled in and out my door
I'm glad they came along
I dedicate this song
To all the names I've loved before

To all the names I once caressed
And may I say I've held the best
For helping me to grow
I owe a lot I know
To all the names I've loved before

The winds of change are always blowing
And every time I try to stay
The winds of change continue blowing
Mumsnet are taking the names away

To all the names who shared my life
MunchedtoomanyMars my shining
I'm glad they came along
I dedicate this song
To all the names I've loved before

To all the names much more than three
Who filled my posts with ecstasy
They live within my heart
I'll always be a part
Of all the names I've loved before

The winds of change are always blowing
And every time I try to stay
The winds of change continue blowing
Mumsnet are taking name change away!

To all the names we've loved before
Who travelled in and out our doors
We're glad they came along
We dedicate this song
To all the names we've loved before

To all the names we've loved before
Who travelled in and out our doors
We're glad they came along
We dedicate this song
To all the names we've loved before

hunkermunker · 06/06/2005 22:08

Can't we just all be CATd with the name and address of whoever posts hurtful comments, then whoever lives nearest can go and jump on their heads till they say sorry?

ANYTHING to keep namechanges!

(Or can I just keep them - go on, Justine, you know you want to say yes to that!)

hunkermunker · 06/06/2005 22:08

PMSL ML!

MarsLady · 06/06/2005 22:10

thank you. The gorgeous sunchowder liked it on the other thread, but no one else was instantly impressed so I thought that I would pop over here and see if anyone else liked it!

Willow2 · 06/06/2005 22:15

Liontamer - wasn't trying to "out" you there - I believe, very strongly, that this site should be available to anyone who needs it. That's why Mumsnet was started. I don't think badly of anyone who hasn't paid up - but, that said, if you can afford it (and you think the site is worth it) then do what you can.

BattyBat · 06/06/2005 22:16

I hope they won't ban this too

rickman · 06/06/2005 22:16

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giraffeski · 06/06/2005 22:19

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thedogmother · 06/06/2005 22:20

v.impressed Marslady/MTMML/RTMTMML/etc

from doggiewalker/ dogwalker/ thedogmother/ dogwalkinginawinterwonderland etc etc

BattyBat · 06/06/2005 22:20

How about name changes get a little pair of sunglasses (like on Ebay) for 30 days so everyone knows it's a name change and not a new poster?

MarsLady · 06/06/2005 22:20

shouldn't you be watching Jack?

thedogmother · 06/06/2005 22:21

ooh yes, any day