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Banned for calling out dogwhistling posts

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DebbieHurry · 22/08/2025 07:43

Yesterday, there was yet another dogwhistlng, vague post on the lines of " Should I send my kids back to school in September? Social media warns of a terrorist attack". This is about the 5th such post in the last 10 days. All by posters spreading panic and fear. I have reported in the past and MN has ignored it. Posts continue to mushroom.

Yesterday, I posted telling people not to get news from Tiktok and pointed out that there have been a spate of such posts.
My posts were deleted, and then my account was banned. My previous username was @KateMiskin.

Could @MN please explain why they allow blatant scaremongering and dogwhistling on a parenting site when the police commissioner has urged people not to spread rumours? And why my account was deleted? I said nothing offensive or that broke the rules. I have been a member for over 20 years.

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Dabberlocks · 25/08/2025 23:19

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/08/2025 22:00

The amount of far right rhetoric I've seen repeatedly on here is chilling. Remigration, mass deportation, white genocide, suicidal empathy, Great Replacement theory, Muslims as terrorists, rapists and paedophiles, 'illegals' have low IQ etc Sometimes it's like a BNP meeting round here.

A lot of OPs are far more subtle than that. Light the blue touchpaper and retire...

noblegiraffe · 25/08/2025 23:19

I'm not radical left wing and I think people have been posting racist shit and also starting wide-eyed naive threads that are deliberately designed to stir up racial tension and/or spread disinformation.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/08/2025 23:21

Dabberlocks · 25/08/2025 23:19

A lot of OPs are far more subtle than that. Light the blue touchpaper and retire...

I know it's subtle, I've just called someone out for spouting the Great Replacement theory.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 23:22

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Lots of word twisting going on here.

I made the "thick as pigshit" comment. Not about anyone in particular, and certainly not about people who aren't "radical left wing".

SquishedMallow · 25/08/2025 23:24

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 23:17

No you have inferred that.

I merely suggested that she hadn't read the full thread, because it was pretty obvious from her comment that she hadn't understood it.

Of course, it is possible that she had read it but failed to understand it.

And of course, it's possible that she did both read understand it, but chose to pretend that she hadn't understood because that suited some other agenda.

Under the circumstances, assuming that she simply hadn't bothered to read it was probably the kindest option, don't you think?

That's why you wrote "oh bless".

So you've just lied and gaslighted me into believing I've misinterpreted your post ...

You're credibility is now zero.

noblegiraffe · 25/08/2025 23:25

The best defence is a good offence, right?

SquishedMallow · 25/08/2025 23:26

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 23:22

Lots of word twisting going on here.

I made the "thick as pigshit" comment. Not about anyone in particular, and certainly not about people who aren't "radical left wing".

No more "word twisting" than calling people on threads racist is it ?

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 23:31

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MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 23:32

SquishedMallow · 25/08/2025 23:26

No more "word twisting" than calling people on threads racist is it ?

If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck....

PandoraSocks · 25/08/2025 23:32

SquishedMallow · 25/08/2025 23:26

No more "word twisting" than calling people on threads racist is it ?

That isn't word twisting.

It is a fact that racists are operating on MN. Evidenced by the fact that MNHQ has deleted some posts and shown some posters the door. Our concern is that too much racism is still slipping though the mods' nets.

SquishedMallow · 25/08/2025 23:34

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I won't be responding to your swearing angry post. It's akin to "chucking ones toys out of the pram".

Sadly, I'm not surprised.

You've shown your true colours.

noblegiraffe · 25/08/2025 23:36

Surprised that these posters haven’t noticed the school attack threads.

RedRiverShore5 · 25/08/2025 23:37

PandoraSocks · 25/08/2025 23:32

That isn't word twisting.

It is a fact that racists are operating on MN. Evidenced by the fact that MNHQ has deleted some posts and shown some posters the door. Our concern is that too much racism is still slipping though the mods' nets.

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Or the posts you don't agree with, is that the ones you mean

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 23:39

SquishedMallow · 25/08/2025 23:34

I won't be responding to your swearing angry post. It's akin to "chucking ones toys out of the pram".

Sadly, I'm not surprised.

You've shown your true colours.

OK. 😂

PandoraSocks · 25/08/2025 23:41

RedRiverShore5 · 25/08/2025 23:37

Or the posts you don't agree with, is that the ones you mean

Well I don't agree with racism, that is v true.

rockstarshoes · 25/08/2025 23:43

Ah Squished here you are again! I asked you last night how long you had been on Mumsnet but you didn’t answer.
Your outrage at the posts telling the wife of the poster with the ‘right wing views’ to LTB sort of inferred you haven’t been here very long?

Obviously I could be wrong but you’ve obviously missed the posts where the general concenus to a DH pinching the last sausage at a BBQ is LTB!

SquishedMallow · 25/08/2025 23:49

rockstarshoes · 25/08/2025 23:43

Ah Squished here you are again! I asked you last night how long you had been on Mumsnet but you didn’t answer.
Your outrage at the posts telling the wife of the poster with the ‘right wing views’ to LTB sort of inferred you haven’t been here very long?

Obviously I could be wrong but you’ve obviously missed the posts where the general concenus to a DH pinching the last sausage at a BBQ is LTB!

Oh sorry. I went off that thread. Funnily enough because of the bully like behaviour from one of the very posters who's at it now on here.

Oh I see, a low bar then for LTB ? 🫣

rockstarshoes · 26/08/2025 00:08

Where’s the laughing emoji when you need it!

rockstarshoes · 26/08/2025 00:12

PandoraSocks · 25/08/2025 23:41

Well I don't agree with racism, that is v true.

👏👏👏👏

SquishedMallow · 26/08/2025 00:50

rockstarshoes · 26/08/2025 00:08

Where’s the laughing emoji when you need it!

Sorry did I say something amusing to you ?

MyNameIsX · 26/08/2025 05:10

SquishedMallow · 25/08/2025 23:12

Back to the old modus operandi I see. Insult flinging, sarcasm, passive aggression.

It’s what they do.

The rest of us must never back down, never give in.

The news flow, and data, will be our sword and our shield. ‘They’ may periodically fall silent in the face of it, but they will never agree with you.

PandoraSocks · 26/08/2025 07:04
defend season 1 GIF by The White Princess

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Piggywaspushed · 26/08/2025 07:25

This too k longer than I anticipated to happen. Note that it wasn't posters in the first 3 pages who reduced the thread to sniping and insults. There was a civilised , thoughtful and interesting debate going on. Now we're in the playground.

If that's not deliberate , smug goading attack, I don't know how to define it.

This thread felt safe.

This is Site Stuff not AIBU.

Surely there ought to eb some kind if rule about posters who trawl MNHQ looking for the people they clearly don't like and prodding the bear. There weren't any deleted posts for 'personal attacks' before this.

EchoedSilence · 26/08/2025 07:35

This is what they do though. Goad to get a reaction then report the poster to get the posts deleted.

Piggywaspushed · 26/08/2025 07:37

Yes, indeed. And this behaviour, it seems, is within Talk guidelines.

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