What is the policy on this and is there a reason why the message can't be updated when its deleted?
This one, for example, has been on your waitlist for review for at least 15 months now:
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/parenting/4926812-dds-nickname-for-her-black-doll?reply=130172020
Should we assume that "looking at it" is code for "deleted" or can we have updates on the messages to confirm if the OP was a troll, if it was causing problems or if it was simply "this thread is not helping anyone" when the reviewer deletes the thread?