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Do you think it's time to start a sexuality shaming topic?

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HotSauceCommittee · 17/05/2014 18:47

For all those who want us to shut up and not to help and laugh with others about sex?

Maybe we could keep the censorious ness and the comments of "what is wrong with people?"

"This is pathetic"

"Why do you need/want to talk about this?"

I've seen no "twats", either metaphorical, or literal, on the sex threads, just coherent, strong argument in favour of discussion and some great humour at times.

I notice that the anti-sex brigade didn't answer some of the rebuttals and counter questions to their protests on the sex threads. Perhaps they'd care to elaborate on a special "Sexuality shaming" thread? Then they can get together some really good insults going and hopefully make the "sex positive" posters among us shut up and creep back into the woodwork.

Has it got legs, do you think?

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HotSauceCommittee · 18/05/2014 21:42

WTF, not WRF, there you go Satans, imagine things and making things up about people.

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HotSauceCommittee · 18/05/2014 21:43

I disagree. That does not mean I am rude to you.

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TequilaMockingbirdy · 18/05/2014 21:43

Yes but sometimes it's wrong. because apparently I'm a name changer (which I have been in the past) and a troll (which I am not) and I'm being discussed at the moment somewhere on Mumsnet.

Which has got me upset really. I've actually given out my real name in the past and recently and have mumsnet people as friends on facebook and twitter.

So I'm going to leave. not staying somewhere people think im a troll.

thanks for the debate everyone it's been interesting.

usuallysuspect · 18/05/2014 21:43

I recognise some NCers easily.

FunnyFoot · 18/05/2014 21:43

And there's me thinking we had moved on and were talking about fish.

Mignonette · 18/05/2014 21:44

As in fish.

Same name since 2006 when I joined.

And Mary that nose tapping 'I can see you' crap does sound snide.

Maybe you need to spend less time on here because it is not very healthy that you should care about such things (which do not exactly take forensic levels of detection BTW).

usuallysuspect · 18/05/2014 21:45

Where are you being discussed, Tequila?

HotSauceCommittee · 18/05/2014 21:45

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SatansFurryJamHats · 18/05/2014 21:45

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Forgettable · 18/05/2014 21:47

Blimey at the believing the spreadsheet is REAL

Mignonette · 18/05/2014 21:47

Tequila

I know you are not a troll. There are people on here who get terribly possessive about the site and think that being on here for years and years makes them some kind of authority and expert. In fact it it something to perhaps be a tad embarrassed about (speaking for myself here too Wink).

People get heafed.

FunnyFoot · 18/05/2014 21:47

Tequila not everyone thinks your a troll. I don't.

I do have my suspicions about Satan given the name and all you cannot really trust her/him plus they were masquerading as the pope earlier and tried to bless me so......Grin

Ignore those who are talking about you at least there leaving usually alone Wink . Unfriend any who upset you and continue enjoying MN for what it has to offer you.

Maryz · 18/05/2014 21:48

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HotSauceCommittee · 18/05/2014 21:49

It's not the point, how busy it was. I have never typed out my immediately previous NN under a post in my current name. I have revealed the one before last, so I have not outed myself, like I was last night.

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Maryz · 18/05/2014 21:50

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Thurlow · 18/05/2014 21:50

Am I the only one who finds the in-fighting, "fucks offs", references to past threads and name changes, suggestions that MN was better in the old days and new posters aren't as good or as 'MN' as longer standing posters leave a worse taste in the mouth than some of the troll threads?

Dipping in an out of these threads over the past few few days. Something feels very fighty and bitchy over the past couple of weeks Sad

FunnyFoot · 18/05/2014 21:50

I cannot speak for everyone but I have had some interesting conversations on this thread and spoken to posters I have not engaged with before. I didn't think it was all bad. But then again I am naïve Wink

HotSauceCommittee · 18/05/2014 21:51

This thread is not about you, nor was it a personal attack on you. It was a counter argument that wasn't on your terms.

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MrsMaturin · 18/05/2014 21:51

Hotsauce you're doing yourself no favours here.

HotSauceCommittee · 18/05/2014 21:52

That's probably because we disagree.

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Maryz · 18/05/2014 21:55

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MrsMaturin · 18/05/2014 21:56

I used to work with somebody whose ex was a trucker called Dave.

True story.

Should I have asked if he had hairy hands?

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