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Hiding specific posters...again!

128 replies

Imbecileningles · 22/09/2010 19:58

Sorry to bring this up again, I know it's been requested many times.

But in the light of the recent upheaval I've seen a few people reiterate that it would be something they'd benefit from so wondered if the stance may have altered at all.

I understand the thing about threads maybe not making total sense without certain posts but surely that's for the individual to cope with, if they have chosen to ignore someone...also I've seen it on a lot of other forums and it seems to work, I'm not sure how.

It isn't so much the odd post here and there on a thread, anyway...that's fine, I can ignore that. But if someone is really prolific and starts many threads per day, it would be such a relief not to see these all the time in Active threads.

I'd be grateful for an update as to whether you might be considering this option, somewhere on the back burner.

Thanks.

OP posts:
2shoes · 24/09/2010 22:46

but what happens if.......
poster a has hidden poster b...

poster a starts a thread, a few people answer, poster b see's thread title(I presume they would still see thread) and reads replies, but can't see op.
the replies are all not mentioning an important fact from the op, like sn/death/abuse.... so how would poster a know how to reply ??

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:17

Example;

You hide me.

You wouldn't be able to see anything I post, or any thread I start.

If I post on a thread your on, well yes, it could be a bit confusing if people are replying to me but you can't see what I'm saying, but that's your tough luck - you wanted me hidden. It works ok on F/B.

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:18

sorry for typos - getting late

2shoes · 24/09/2010 23:19

(but I don't want to hide you)

so any thread the hidden poster starts would be hidden form the person hiding the OP(phew...) wouldn't it be easier just to hide the thread in the first place?

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:22

It was an example...I know you wouldn't hide me Smile

2shoes · 24/09/2010 23:22

life would be way too dull lol

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:25

But what if potential hidden poster starts 5 threads a week and posts all over the place? you have to keep hiding her threads and ignoring her posts.

Easier to block her completely.

2shoes · 24/09/2010 23:26

or him:o
I can see it wouldn't be easy, but you might miss the thread where you unliked person gets their come uppance (sp)

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:30

Tbh - I'm thinking more about other people deleting me [selfless]

I want to make their lives easier.

I probably wouldn't delete anyone, not permanently...maybe for a week...lol

2shoes · 24/09/2010 23:32

yeah but, people have to take the good and bad.
I am quite sure there are people who would like to hide me, but surely better if they just told me to shut the fuck up, at least I would know .....hope that makes sense

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:36

2shoes, you're so medieval

I can just imagine you watching your 4th public execution of the day...and loving it.

2shoes · 24/09/2010 23:37

lol thats me sorry that really made me laugh,
I really didn't mean it that way, tbh I don't think people take that much notice of me:o

Greensleeves · 24/09/2010 23:39

rofl daftpunk, that has made me spurt beer

Why do we need to hide people? When I hate people I want them where I can see the whites of their eyes

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:39

I think you're right

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:41

Oh hi GS...sorry that reply was to 2shoes..

2shoes · 24/09/2010 23:44

what that no one notice me

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:50

you're a lot tougher than me GS....I can't be bothered arguing with them....not on a regular basis

Greensleeves · 24/09/2010 23:52

I am not tough, I cry all the time

but hiding people wouldn't help

it was the same when my mother was terrorising me, people said "change your number" but I couldn't. I needed to know where she was. If she was decanting all the vileness into the answering machine, I knew when she was having one of her bilious attacks and it wouldn't be a complete surprise if she turned up on the doorstep

I am paranoid though

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:58
Grin
Greensleeves · 24/09/2010 23:59

just because you are paranoid, does not mean that they are NOT all out to get you Grin

daftpunk · 24/09/2010 23:59

sorry....fuck it, I'll never get that job with the samaritans

Greensleeves · 25/09/2010 00:00

jesus daftpunk you would be to the samaritans what the Boston strangler was to door to door salesmen Grin

daftpunk · 25/09/2010 00:00

I'm actually crying with laughter......

CountessVonKnackerstein · 25/09/2010 00:02

Mn could contact op to say a post had been hidden?

MarshaBrady · 25/09/2010 08:50

I just want to know who is making stuff up...