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How to dominate a man in bed

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Aquabluemouse · 10/07/2025 09:45

I’m generally more submissive in the bedroom but my FWB has said it really turns him on when a woman dominates him, which I'm happy to oblige. We’ve spoken about it and he doesn’t want to be tied up and he doesn’t want to receive any significant pain (hair pulling,
a bit of scratching, gentle bites are the extent of what he would tolerate) but anything else goes.

So really I need tips on how to dominate him, ideally from both women and men on here, in a non-painful, non-restrained kind of way. Any help is much appreciated!!

OP posts:
namechanged1010 · 13/07/2025 14:18

JoyousMaker · 13/07/2025 11:04

A superb evening! Will you both be trying it again?

Yes…he has virtually pleaded to do again…I said he has to wait until I’m ready. But might be more confident next time again

namechanged1010 · 13/07/2025 14:35

ruffler45 · 13/07/2025 13:51

You pushed your own boundaries (basque and stockings) well done and it paid off😀

Yes thanks. I def did push my boundaries but was worth seeing his response. Was nice making him have to wait and be hard enough

Woody003 · 13/07/2025 20:36

There good starting point if he wants this he should obey with out the lock on it ,

I would he he

Woody003 · 13/07/2025 23:39

mnmnddddd · 13/07/2025 11:00

Silicone cages can look lovely, especially the coloured ones, and the idea of something soft might sound better "for beginners", but if you want him to wear it to stop him getting an erection or masturbating, their flexibility means they're dead easy for him to pull his cock out so zero use at all as a chastity device.

Sorry didn’t know how to reply so my reply went to end of thread lol ,,,, 😚

AmandeFrance0979 · 14/07/2025 00:12

ThatDaringEagle · 10/07/2025 13:10

Jeez, this thread is an eye watering , eye opener...

Who would have thought "mumsnet" of all places was peopled with such wanton, dominant , filthy women ;)

And I thought sex was just a chore for most mums on here:))

It's mostly men pretending to be women.

ThatDaringEagle · 14/07/2025 01:17

AmandeFrance0979 · 14/07/2025 00:12

It's mostly men pretending to be women.

Ahh jeez, why did you have to tell me that.... you've just ruined it for me ;)

Aquabluemouse · 14/07/2025 10:12

ThatDaringEagle · 14/07/2025 01:17

Ahh jeez, why did you have to tell me that.... you've just ruined it for me ;)

If it makes you feel better I really am a woman 🤣 Although given the number of private messages I’ve received I can concur that a large number of posters on here are men 🤣🤣🤣

OP posts:
MsDDxx · 14/07/2025 10:28

Aquabluemouse · 14/07/2025 10:12

If it makes you feel better I really am a woman 🤣 Although given the number of private messages I’ve received I can concur that a large number of posters on here are men 🤣🤣🤣

Someone I used to PM on here last year started posting on the board pretending to be a woman. It was so obvious as well because he’d ask me something about a situation and then go on the board and post the same question immediately afterwards as a woman…and he/she spelt a certain word the same way. And would post about things he’d told me had happened but as a woman 😂. I don’t PM him any more surprisingly 😂

WokeUpWantingMore · 14/07/2025 11:09

I’ve had a couple of PM’s from men based on my recent 2 posts. Do men just scour the sex board and PM in the hopes of getting laid?

Gymbunny2025 · 14/07/2025 11:43

WokeUpWantingMore · 14/07/2025 11:09

I’ve had a couple of PM’s from men based on my recent 2 posts. Do men just scour the sex board and PM in the hopes of getting laid?

Yes.

report!

WokeUpWantingMore · 14/07/2025 11:46

Gymbunny2025 · 14/07/2025 11:43

Yes.

report!

😜 it’s been fun talking to them, a bit of flirting never hurt anyone. I doubt I’ll go as far as meeting them though

everywhichway · 14/07/2025 12:27

WokeUpWantingMore · 14/07/2025 11:46

😜 it’s been fun talking to them, a bit of flirting never hurt anyone. I doubt I’ll go as far as meeting them though

Well, if that doesn't get you loads more I don't know what will!

ThatDaringEagle · 14/07/2025 12:40

everywhichway · 14/07/2025 12:27

Well, if that doesn't get you loads more I don't know what will!

Shhh , that's obviously her idea 😉

It's like cheap Internet dating 😀

MsDDxx · 14/07/2025 13:08

WokeUpWantingMore · 14/07/2025 11:46

😜 it’s been fun talking to them, a bit of flirting never hurt anyone. I doubt I’ll go as far as meeting them though

I agree, and it doesn’t take long to weed out the weird ones 😂

Or the ones without a sense of humour.

WokeUpWantingMore · 14/07/2025 19:09

😆 It’s a lot of harmless fun. More the merrier! If you’re single why not?

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