Partners masturbating?

[lucyandmike]

Does anyone know if their partner masturbates or not? Do you mind if they do or don't?

It's never been a secret between me and my husband, but I have a close girl friend who was upset to find out it was something her husband still did and she really would prefer him not to. I did tell her that I expected her husband was not the only married guy that did!

My wife does frequently. She has a very high sex drive. She sometimes does it in the middle of the night in bed together, and it will usually lead to some wild sex. Like some previous posters, I do wonder what/who she is thinking about when she's moaning LOL

I masturbrate and my partner is absolutely fine with it as long as it doesn't interfere with our sexlife.
My partner uses her wand and I've walked in on her using it, I just say I wish you'd tell me so I can watch.

We both do it. Why deny yourself something free and fun!!!!

I'm not sure if my partner does or not, id guess she does, sometimes, i mean she doesn't initiate sex, but i guess she still masturbates?

I obviously do, that's my only source of real pleasure.

We both still masturbate and know each other does it, sometimes we will do it together or watch each other if one of us just needs to wank. I do it more than him and do it most days, I got to that point when I was younger and just enjoy doing it as it makes me feel great. He does it once or twice a week depending on how often we had sex that week.

It’s one of the few pleasures in life that isn’t taxed and has mental health benefits. Imagine that ha ha!!

Haha! Yes exactly this my sentiments too, well, probably most people sentiments! Although they could increase the tax on tissues to really annoy men! 😂

My wife already answered on this thread but she asked me to post an answer from my perspective (the husband). We got together when we were first at uni and whenever it initially came up she said she didn't masturbate at all as it was not something she needed to do. It was quite a while before she admitted that she actually did masturbate and enjoyed it a lot, had been doing it since she was younger and had already started to use a vibrator before we met.

Since then we have both been very enthusiastic masturbators both on our own and together. I try to go a bit longer now between sessions, maybe 2-4 days, as I find I get really horny if I don't wank for a few days but she still does it daily and loves using her wand vibrator.

My DH strokes one out himself if I'm not in the mood. He usually sits on his hand for a few minutes first to make it go numb so he can pretend someone else is doing it.👌

Surely no one does that? !!! I’m being educated if so! Each to their own!

I thought that was just a sitcom joke 😅

Yep. Once, he even put nail varnish on, sat on both hands for a few minutes, then we both did it together so he could pretend to fulfil his fantasy of a four-hander from two women. Is that normal? I assumed everyone had tried that?

It's a human need. with busy lives and young kids dont often get the time to have full sex, so masturbation helps keep tings in calm. We both do it. Dont talk about it but I couldn't cope without it lol

Absolutely we both do. I’ll often send videos of me using toys and he will go to the toilet at work and send a cum video back lol. If we are together sometimes he does it whikst watching porn of his choice and I’ll donit watching porn I like and at the same time we are watching each other . Sometimes even I will use our largest toy when I’m in bed and he is about to come upstairs and bring myself close as he then likes to have sex when I’m a lot looser and we fantasise that I’ve just been with another man bigger than he is.

There were quite a few people involved in that discussion so I think it was a mass debate.

I remember the first time I realised my partner had. I was actually upset and felt left out. BUT I am not such an idiot now. Of course guys do that, it is their dick in their hands, hopefully they are thinking about you when they do it! I would be worried if my partner didn't masturbate.

sorry, just noticed the pairing off above - please someone tell me what that duck means? Although saying that, I hardly dare ask 😂

It’s been proven that the more a man cums it can cut the chance of getting prostate cancer.
Both my wife and I have our toys and masturbate regularly, alone or both in the room if we’re driving a long distance she will relax herself sometimes.

Me and dh have a regular sex life I have a higher sed drive then him so I do sometimes play alone to I much prefer him doing it to me he doesn't do it that I know of if he does it wouldn't bother me

I (male) do it frequently. Once a day on average. My wife would be very coy about admitting it but I’m pretty sure she does it 1-2 times a week when she has some alone time.
We do have a reasonable sex life though - 2/3 times a week on average and mutual masturbation is often an element of our together time.

no but i think they have a general need to do it.. and it makes them feel good and happy so they really should, in my amateur opinion 😉

It depends. I'm no longer that young, and ejaculating gets in the way of my sexual performance: it knocks it out for 24 hours or so. But I'm well aware of the health benefits and if sex isn't happening every other day at least I will make sure I do what is best for my health.

I know that in reality it would be a little coercive and probably wouldn't work, but the thought of being made by my partner to ejaculate regularly is a nice fantasy.

I think it's completely normal to masturbate. Part of having a normal sex drive. Both of us masturbate in our relationship. Something that is accepted as normal for us.

I personally prefer to save up my juice for Mrs D but problem is then it's over super fast

I don’t get anywhere near as much sex as I want/need so regularly masturbate, my wife on the other hand thinks it’s disgusting so it’s a solo sport for me