Rimming and being rimmed. What are your thoughts about it?

[Curiousmember]

Also known as analingus. I've had it done to me a few times, but I've never felt much pleasure from it. When I do it to my partner, I am amazed at the reaction it elicits from him. He says the pleasure he gets from it is mind-blowing. I get really turned on when I'm doing it to him. I am curious if men usually get more pleasure from receiving? Do others prefer giving or receiving it?

I love doing it and having it done to me, only fresh from the shower tho. Dw will only do it once in a blue moon, so its a rare treat.

I've been with men who like it. But I've been sneaky and had my face down there but basically wetted my finger and traced it round pretending it's my tounge.

I’d like to know if there a technique for doing this for men.. can you cum from riming alone ?

Love both giving and receiving. One of my favourite things to do.

My man rimms me all the time. It feels good. Not amazing but good. He is desperate for me to do it to him but I hate the thought of it. He says it's an amazing feeling and it disappoints him that I won't do it.

He's right , it is an amazing feeling , my OH does it to me when she's in the right mood for it . I don't push her into doing so though

God no. Aside from the thought of getting poo in my mouth from doing it to someone else, I have permanently protruding piles. I can't imagine that being a turn on.

I do it to my dp, but he has a colostomy so his anus is disconnected and none of the usual stuff can come out of there. I'm not sure I'd be so comfortable to give it otherwise, for the hygiene reason. Equally I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable receiving it, because I'd worry that it isn't possible to be clean enough for there not to be some unpleasant (but completely natural) bacteria involved. I would think the physical sensation isn't going to be any better than what's achievable with a finger or toy, so the only advantage to rimming is that it's more taboo, slightly more demeaning for the giver.

Goodness no, I’d probably be reminded of my cat while I was doing it- which I won’t because I can’t get past the ick factor, apologies to those who do.

My exes poo hole smelt .... I know that from when giving him oral, there would be no way I would have gone near his, not even with someone else's tongue!

But whatever floats your boat. :-)

My wife has never moaned as much in pleasure as she did the first time I rimmed her.

I'd say this actually transformed and saved our marriage by bringing us closer together.

She wasn't into anal play at all before this, but now asks for it regularly and really enjoys the freedom it gives her to express herself outside of the strict confines of her upbringing.

I like giving and receiving but obviously fresh from the bathtub!

I've done it once or twice and couldn't get over excited about it tbh, it's nice enough but I'm quite happy not doing it.

Totally grim🤮

Yech

MinimalPinimal

😂 same

I love it, amazing! It’s a rare thing though. We enjoy this part much more often in our massage sessions. Also when we give head, the anus often gets massaged on the outside in the same time. Doubles the pleasure.

I just spat out my wine!! 😂

@Maze76

Sorry to waste your wine, but it is 100% true. 🤣

I'm the sub part of a domme/sub relationship and I'm absolutely delighted when this is requested - which happens to be frequently. I could swear her eyes roll all the way around !

Gay friend confessed that he spits on his finger rubs the ring then discreetly sniffs finger to make sure it’s clean before he rims it

My DP loves licking my arsehole and I love it too - but I won’t do it for him 🤮. He seems OK with that 🤷‍♀️

dental dams exist, very helpful for rimming if you wanna return the favour. Lube on the contact side, tongue on the other side, and away you go!

Have had it done to me and while I didn’t dislike it, it didn’t do anything for me and I wouldn’t be bothered about getting it again. It’s a hard no to me ever rimming someone.

Sorry, I realise this is an oldish post but I've just come across it as a fairly new MNer doing a bit of a catch-up and wanted to add my two penneth, for what it's worth.

I'd love to do this to DW often (and we did do it quite a few times in early the years of marriage and she to me which was definitely nice) but she's just not that keen for it to be a regular thing.

Occasionally, 69 gives opportunity. The combination of giving oral back and front is just amazing. Don't know why - apart from the fact that DW has got the most beautiful,
gorgeous bum - but I find the whole thing incredibly erotic and intimate. Sorry if tmi but I love the clean but musky smell of her anus too which is a big part of the turn on.