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Rimming and being rimmed. What are your thoughts about it?

129 replies

Curiousmember · 19/11/2022 19:24

Also known as analingus. I've had it done to me a few times, but I've never felt much pleasure from it. When I do it to my partner, I am amazed at the reaction it elicits from him. He says the pleasure he gets from it is mind-blowing. I get really turned on when I'm doing it to him. I am curious if men usually get more pleasure from receiving? Do others prefer giving or receiving it?

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Anotherlurkingmale · 01/02/2023 12:20

This is clearly something of a divisive move in the bedroom, was it what Meatloaf was referring to in his song 'I would do anything for love but I won't do that!'

Never been offered this either as giver or receiver but would be curious to try. Would probably be something I'd want to experience to receive/give during orgasm to experience different sensation and could be interesting if combined with sub/Dom scenario. Not sure I feel ready to ask my other half though so will probably just remain fantasy.

Well done to those couples who've successfully broken this taboo though to enjoy it.

Iloveabaconbutty · 01/02/2023 12:31

@Judeisnotobscure I totally agree! It's all about relaxing together isn't it? Gently exploring new areas of sensuality, openness, vulnerability and trust. Lovingly pushing back boundaries. We've been married for nearly twenty six years and there are still things we are learning.

And although anal sex (just to touch on the theme of this thread) has always featured occasionally, relaxing in the spoons position while I simultaneously massage her back and feet for an hour or so during a lazy morning lie-in is quite a recent pleasure discovered. Heavenly.

And yes, I agree with @Rieslinger David Schnarch is excellent!

Judeisnotobscure · 01/02/2023 13:11

@Iloveabaconbutty your relationship trajectory is similar to ours. It’s so beautiful to grow and develop together. Your DW is incredibly lucky and I’m going to borrow your lie in ritual, I think I must’ve been a cat in a past life, I never tire of getting stroked and massaged!!

Iloveabaconbutty · 01/02/2023 13:16

@Judeisnotobscure Enjoy! It's the most lovely, snuggly (when you are skin to skin) and sensual thing to do. Great for back of the neck kisses too!

Palmfrond · 01/02/2023 18:43

You say rimming, I say cholera outbreak.

thepatronsaintofbubblewrap · 01/02/2023 18:46

It would be a definite no from me but, but remember men have a prostate and women don't. That's not to say women can't enjoy it, they clearly do sometimes.

Beetlewings · 01/02/2023 18:49

Yeah it's a no from me

afinishedkiss · 01/02/2023 18:51

No, not for me. If I got even the faintest whiff of shite I would puke all over his ass.
I am prudy in fairness though.

Whitegrenache · 01/02/2023 19:02

Palmfrond · 01/02/2023 18:43

You say rimming, I say cholera outbreak.

GrinGrin

AnuSTart · 01/02/2023 21:00

Palmfrond · 01/02/2023 18:43

You say rimming, I say cholera outbreak.

I too find this to be the funniest thing I've read in months. I may have to put it in quotes on a Moonpig mug for my DP!!!

My man loves it! He is fastidiously clean which helps, but the first time I did it, unprompted (and he'd never had it before) was quite the explosion (in a good way)!

Rieslinger · 02/02/2023 10:58

As I understand it the last reported case of Cholera in the UK was 1893. so I don't think you need to worry as long as you are clean beforehand. 😀

cobblers123 · 02/02/2023 11:10

Hepatitis A can be spread from close, personal contact with an infected person, such as through certain types of sexual contact (like oral-anal sex), caring for someone who is ill, or using drugs with others. Hepatitis A is very contagious, and people can even spread the virus before they feel sick.

Judeisnotobscure · 02/02/2023 11:16

@cobblers123 you’re right, of course. But it can also be contracted via oral sex, do we have to take that off the menu now too?

Iris1976 · 02/02/2023 11:17

been on receiving end unexpectedly once and loved it,never given and wouldn't want to honestly.

Rieslinger · 02/02/2023 11:41

Both my DW and I were vaccinated last year for Hep A and B before a trip to Africa, relief! Not that it's stopped us tbh 😝

aSofaNearYou · 02/02/2023 11:43

Can't imagine anything worse than giving or receiving.

Rieslinger · 02/02/2023 11:49

Be clean, be curious?

Judeisnotobscure · 02/02/2023 11:56

@Rieslinger Sexy and sanitised?

Iloveabaconbutty · 02/02/2023 12:04

@Judeisnotobscure @Rieslinger
Washed and willing?

Judeisnotobscure · 02/02/2023 12:05

@Rieslinger
@Iloveabaconbutty Horny and hygienic?

Abeachsomewhere · 02/02/2023 12:18

I literally can’t imagine anything worse, whether giving or receiving - each to their own! 🤢🤮

Rieslinger · 02/02/2023 12:19

Fresh and Frolicing?

Rieslinger · 02/02/2023 12:19

Smooth and Sexy?

Rieslinger · 02/02/2023 12:20

Epilated and Engorged....might have gone too far😆

Judeisnotobscure · 02/02/2023 12:26

@Rieslinger
🤪 love it

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