Biggest turn ons during sex!

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What are your biggest turn ons during sex?

I am a fairly visual person and the sight of my partner giving me oral is a huge turn on, especially when I’m wearing some nice lingerie and he slides things to the side for easy access.

Dirty talk during sex is also something that drives me wild, we have only recently started doing this but at the right time OMG!!

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Definitely dirty talking but 8n,y when I am already aroused or well on the way. I cringe sometimes when I think what we have both said but it massively turns me on some of the things he whispers

Dirty talk and tickling.

Shared fantasies sometimes are a real turn on but whenever my wife orgasms is the hottest moment during sex for me. I'm not usually long in following on!

Other than that when she does something really raunchy that's totally unexpected. It doesn't happen very often (and I'm not giving details), but wow! When that happens I go into hyperspace!

For my hubby it's the sight of my boobs if changing or in bed playing with my pubes turns him on.

For me its dropping of the hand giving him a hand job and moving to oral 69 then 🥰

I love a Prince Albert piercing

It's the anticipation for me. Knowing what's coming next really gets me going.

Hygiene, literally someone who's clean! Nothing worse than going to give oral and his dick smells like rotting fish!

Apart from that, love my nipples sucked....that gets me going in seconds.

Oh dear! I’ve never thankfully experienced this, what could cause a man to have a rotting fish smell? Surely that’s not just bad hygiene 🤢

How much he wants me really turns me on

Giving oral and being in control of his dick when he is rock hard.

Recently with a new partner after an 8 year long practically sexless relationship - I now have a new list of turn ons:

• male dominance
• dirty talk - he explicitly said “one day you’re going to have my babies like this” (wasn’t sure how to take it - but it secretly really turned me on)
• being called his “good girl”
• spanking
• Gentle hold around the neck and him spitting in my mouth

So with you on this, there's no excuse for bad hygiene! Glad this wasn't your second point as I wouldn't have got by the sucking nipples....

Confidence, sucker for stockings and dirty talk.

Dirty talk, mainly fantasy talk.
Rough play, pinning me down, gentle choaking, spanking
Nipple play

All of the above really turn me on and OH knows it.

Dirty talk is a massive turn on.

I love watching boobs bouncing .

In a MMF threesome watching my wife give the guy a BJ whilst he gives me one.

In a FFM threesome watching my wife suck pussy whilst the woman gives me a BJ.

Hearing my wife moan in pleasure: PIV, oral or rimming. All three equally.

My DH loves most of these when fantasising in bed about it except he he is definitely straight so doesn't like anything involving the other guy touching him. hHe loved it when he found out my ex was circumcised and that I did really like that. He loves me telling him what it would be like if he was cut and whether I would like that. I actually think the one thing that might happen in reality is that he does get circumcised as he really likes the idea

Anticipation

Anticipation
Dominating my DH
Bondage
Latex

I love being spoken dirty too , love my bum smacked , like to see my hands pulling DH foreskin back .

Seeing DH go inside me. His piece is glorious to behold!

Yes!

And anticipating... texts all day leading up to it.

"Yes" and "please".
I spent so many years hearing "don't do that" or "not there" that hearing the opposite is just the sexiest thing ever.

Having sex while my nipples are being sucked is a recently discovered pleasure.