Biggest turn ons during sex!

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What are your biggest turn ons during sex?

I am a fairly visual person and the sight of my partner giving me oral is a huge turn on, especially when I’m wearing some nice lingerie and he slides things to the side for easy access.

Dirty talk during sex is also something that drives me wild, we have only recently started doing this but at the right time OMG!!

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Talking about fantasies while fucking.

I had a massive turn on during sex this weekend.

I've mentioned elsewhere on here that my wife and I have a couple with benefits. A married couple with who we spend anything between three and ten nights a month (not consecutively) usually on a spouse swap thing, normally FM but sometimes FF and MM.

We also sometimes have threesome with one person watching the other three.

Last night, with my wife watching, I gave the husband a BJ whilst his wife was giving me one.

The M then came in my mouth at the exact same second as I came in his wife's. The feeling of taking his cum whilst she was taking mine was very intense and a big turn on.

We tried to repeat it later with him sucking me while my wife gave him the BJ but sadly, I came a good 30-40 seconds before he did.

We were all turned on by this and we will be certainly trying it again.

@bedbedtimeisthebest thanks for making me realise how vanilla my life is :)

Having my ear holes licked.simple but very enjoyable

During the latter part of my fading marriage my now ex husband, during the all too infrequent intimacy, became obsessed with talking about me having a young black guy as a lover to the point where it got on my nerves and was a turn off. But guess what? He was right 😍😂

My now FWB is 15th my junior and my sex life is just WOW! We only see each other once a week at best and he adores pretty lingerie. Having a young man to dress up for, who appreciates you & your body (such as it is lol) really does do your self confidence the power of good!

Being slightly submissive and doing things I’ve never even heard about is sooo pleasing. Dirty texts during the day asking me to do this and that!

Doing things you've never heard about??? Pray tell? We're always up for new things.

My DP of 3 years has in the last 6 months of our very adventurous sex life, taken to calling me mummy, and wanting me to tell him he's a good boy etc.
It turns him on massively and I enjoy the thrill of how much he's turned on. Is the Mummy thing common ? We haven't really discussed it

I have a mashed lumbar spine/ stretched and damaged spinal cord/ nerve damage and loss of sensation below the waist. Hence, the use of teeth during fellatio, as in my penis being raked by my wife's teeth, really drives me wild.

Congratulations @Angela59 !

Enjoy yourself again and again and again!!!

I think it's quite common. I find it a bit weird, but who am I to judge someone on their turn-ons. 😅

Feeling Mrs F cum when I am giving her oral then so lightly touching her with my tongue top and feeling her pussy pulse delicious
Watching Mrs F giving me a bj
laying back while Mrs F massages my cock balls and keeps me on the edge forever before sliding her fingers in my ass and making me cum
love a 69 as well
basically love it all

It's the look in his eyes and his face as he makes that last little push to enter me, and I move a little.

So many things - knowing sex is definitely happening, bouncing boobs (mine), rock hard erection waiting for me, dominance, tongues in mouths while PIV, musty smell of him, sexy knickers pulled to one side, tanned forearms.

Well what can I say lol

Other than it’s 03:45 & he’s just left 😈

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I have a MFF fantasy i’m going to try one day

I really like my FWBs cock , and him liking me liking its hot
plus dildo/dick plus nipple play
always
plus what he whispers

I get turned on so much when my wife socks my circumcision scar as all her previous partners were uncut.

She often asks me details about my operation.

Feeling that she is wet and ready and the first moments when I feel wetness on my dick as I start to penetrate her......

I was reminded of another big turn on last night and that is hearing my wife having loud sex with another man (or indeed a woman as happens sometimes).

We have our couple with benefits over for the weekend.

Bit of background, whenever there is important football on they often come over as the M is not really into football but his wife is.

The woman and I usually watch the football with a few drinks whilst my wife and her husband go upstairs for sex.

During last night's game the sound from my wife enjoying him were very loud and both me and his wife enjoyed it so much, we made the most of half time.

We are all watching tonight's England game so it'll be interesting to see what happens after the game, or with them two if the game gets slow and goalless.

This is great! It gives me hope...

Good x

Anticipation.
having my nipples sucked.
hearing him moan.

We have been having sex for 43 years and hearing my wife gasp or moan when I enter her is still a turn on for me. Like another on this thread it took us a while to discover the pleasure of some dirty talk, which often leads to talk about fantasies. We have found it's easy to overuse it, so we try to use it sparingly. My wife has never been unfaithful (nor have I) and says it was never going to happen, but hearing her describe the circumstances where it might happen is a surprising turn on.

If she quickly catches on to my mood without having to explain too much
If I wanted it slow, gentle and in whispers. Or fast and shouty.

Dorisisfreezing.

Can you catch on to her mood without her having to explain it to you too.

Doris you male Or
female
curious